gilfer Posted August 7, 2008 Share Posted August 7, 2008 From what i've gathered while surfing on the web i found that most women dont orgasm from intercourse, so whhy do women still want it?? Link to comment
stella777 Posted August 7, 2008 Share Posted August 7, 2008 From what i've gathered while surfing on the web i found that most women dont orgasm from intercourse, so whhy do women still want it?? I dont want it that much! just once in a while if it is up to me. But well, it is more intimate and sexual sometimes and the fact that your partner really enjoys it makes you happy! Link to comment
tiredofvampires Posted August 7, 2008 Share Posted August 7, 2008 From what i've gathered while surfing on the web i found that most women dont orgasm from intercourse, so whhy do women still want it?? Because if they didn't, the human race would die out. I'm being completely serious. But I don't want you to feel I'm being flippant. Nature drives us to want what is needed for the organism, as well as the species. This particular aspect of Nature though is really about the species. Sex was made pleasurable for this reason. Men want an orgasm because it feels good, but the reason for that is not the enjoyment of the orgasm. The orgasm's a fringe benefit from the point of view of Mother Nature. She has much bigger priorities than a man or woman getting off. That's just the cherry she tosses out for "doing it." We get to feel good, She gets to make sure we reproduce. Win-win. So orgasm or not, for women this is a deeply desired activity. Women are likely to feel more emotionally connected and complete in the act of sex during intercourse, so it's still satisfying to the organism (yes, organISM) while serving a higher role for the species. Link to comment
Hollyj Posted August 7, 2008 Share Posted August 7, 2008 It is the closest you can get to someone. Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted August 7, 2008 Share Posted August 7, 2008 From what i've gathered while surfing on the web i found that most women dont orgasm from intercourse, so whhy do women still want it?? just because you don't get off doesn't mean it still doesn't feel good. Guys don't get off from kissing but they still do it. Link to comment
joan Posted August 7, 2008 Share Posted August 7, 2008 i agree with wolf, i do not and have not had an orgasm from intercourse. But it does feel good, my SO enjoys it and gets off from it, plus it puts me in the mood to finish with fingers or toys. So thats why i still want to do it!! Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted August 7, 2008 Share Posted August 7, 2008 i agree with wolf, i do not and have not had an orgasm from intercourse. But it does feel good, my SO enjoys it and gets off from it, plus it puts me in the mood to finish with fingers or toys. So thats why i still want to do it!! Yeah, although I have yet to have sex, I know from giving oral that I really like to please the one that I'm in love with. I didn't get much out of it per se...but I liked doing it a lot anyway for him. Link to comment
Hockey.Chick Posted August 7, 2008 Share Posted August 7, 2008 It is the closest you can get to someone. I completely agree with this statement...I have never felt more closeness to my partner than through actual intercourse. It is the ultimate demonstration of passion, desire, and in my case, love, for a significant other. Obviously this doesn't apply to some cases like FWB or prostitution, but as far as relationships go, there is no way quite as intense to show you partner how you feel than by having intercourse. Link to comment
littlestar Posted August 7, 2008 Share Posted August 7, 2008 even if u dont get off still feels good to have a piece of meat inside u. Link to comment
sushi_pompom Posted August 7, 2008 Share Posted August 7, 2008 It's an intimate bonding experience, well at least when you are in love with the person you are having sex with. Link to comment
Love_Music Posted August 7, 2008 Share Posted August 7, 2008 For me, it's more of the mental intimacy. It feels good though! Link to comment
greensleeves Posted August 7, 2008 Share Posted August 7, 2008 What sites are you surfing? I know lots of women who have orgasm with intercourse....me included. Link to comment
Rising Posted August 7, 2008 Share Posted August 7, 2008 Orgasm is not the purpose of sex. It's a nice bonus. Link to comment
gilfer Posted August 7, 2008 Author Share Posted August 7, 2008 What sites are you surfing? I know lots of women who have orgasm with intercourse....me included. From the sites (random google searching) said only about 20-30 % of women actually orgasm from it assuming they dont fake it. Link to comment
greensleeves Posted August 7, 2008 Share Posted August 7, 2008 What I just found in a quick google search is that they don't reach it from penetration alone. So,just thrusting in and out without some foreplay and clitoral stimulation means they likely won't. Some men just have to learn a few tricks Link to comment
emmie_g Posted August 7, 2008 Share Posted August 7, 2008 I dont think i would have sex if i didnt get orgasms from it!! i get really annoyed when my partner cums and i dont! Link to comment
Tulip 128 Posted August 7, 2008 Share Posted August 7, 2008 From what i've gathered while surfing on the web i found that most women dont orgasm from intercourse, so whhy do women still want it?? i orgasm from intercourse, but my clitoris needs to be stimulated at the same time. most women can't orgasm from just g-spot stimulation alone. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted August 7, 2008 Share Posted August 7, 2008 it's what people do. women want to please the guy too. Link to comment
cichlid Posted August 7, 2008 Share Posted August 7, 2008 From what i've gathered while surfing on the web i found that most women dont orgasm from intercourse, so whhy do women still want it?? I think it's more along the lines of not orgasming through vaginal penetration alone! I orgasm just fine when I am on top and in control. I orgasm about 60-70% of the time. Link to comment
bijoux27 Posted August 7, 2008 Share Posted August 7, 2008 Cause it feels gooooood. And you can do it in so many positions in so many ways in so many places...not as much you could do with a finger or tongue lol Link to comment
Day_Walker Posted August 7, 2008 Share Posted August 7, 2008 I cannot state generically why all women have sex but I would infer that women typically engage in sexual activity for emotional reasons. If you dont believe this is true then realize that a significant portion of women will not have sex with a guy unless they have an emotional attachment to him. I also suspect that primarily women do not engage in sexual activity for physical reasons, I think this is the rule rather than the exception, the pleasure seems to be a bonus to the emotional fulfillment that they feel. Link to comment
Cardinal Posted August 8, 2008 Share Posted August 8, 2008 Can't speak for women, but as a man orgasm isn't that important to me when considering intercourse. The orgasm itself typically offers less than 30 seconds of pleasure. Intercourse does however allow for a constant state of arousal and pleasure that is unmatched in other life activities imo. Even without an orgasm that is more than enough reason to get it on (not even considering emotional side of things) Link to comment
greensleeves Posted August 8, 2008 Share Posted August 8, 2008 Many women have sex simply because it's enjoyable. Link to comment
anggrace Posted August 8, 2008 Share Posted August 8, 2008 Because it feels good in more ways than one. Link to comment
Superfreak Posted August 8, 2008 Share Posted August 8, 2008 Intercourse is a beautiful act of two people working together to achieve a common goal: His orgasm Link to comment
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