Discovery Posted August 6, 2008 Share Posted August 6, 2008 Hello a little background, Me and my girlfriend of almost 1 year broke up nearly a month ago, well she broke up and we continued seeing each other like we were still together. Anyways, there were some issues on my part being an immature guy, thinking of porn and lying, hiding things that really didn't matter beacuse I was afraid of what I don't know probably that she would get mad at me. well about 2 n a half months ago I told her about thinking about porn and all of the lying and hidding things from her, needless to say this hurt her very deeply and since then every 2 or 3 days when I feel like she is doing great making headway into healing from the pain I caused her we get into a fight about some other thing she remembered that I said to her forever ago that adds to her feelings. Today I finally made her tell me what was best for her she came to say after wanting to be with me and whatever that what is best for her is to not see me. She has said this alot but I ran after her not wanting to lose her, feeling like she was saying it out of anger, but this time I said ok and told her I understood and I want whats best and I hope that she has a good life and finds a guy like she used to think I was, which was in her eyes, perfect, said bye and hung up. Does anyone have some advice......I mean should I really not talk to her and if so how do you deal with leaving the first person you ever loved. Im 19 im not in high school love, its genuine, I would give my life to make her happy. What should I do? Link to comment
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