The Difference in Cultures - Virginity

[Imprecision]

I couldn't care less if a woman is a virgin or not, but I know one thing a non-virgin girl cant do -- she cant hurt me as badly as a virgin girl if she cheats on me. Like say for example, suppose you go with a virgin girl, fall in love with her, and she cheats on you with a non-virgin player who has more prowess and is able to seduce her which you cant even do, then what then? Suppose she starts crying that all men are bad and uses you as an emotional tampoon about how she got used by some guy who 'accidentally' seduced her but did not intend to do so? I used to want virgin girls before, but now I don't care either way, as long as she ain't a virgin when she meets me and cheats or something.

 

Virginity turns me off. There's no depravity.

 

I lost my virginity when I was sixteen. By then, at least half of my friends were non-virgins. A few were having threesomes. thereforee, I was ashamed that I was a virgin. I told Girl T, the first girl I did it with, that I was a non-virgin. I made up a story about a girl I knew from another city. She bought it. And then we did it. Then, I told Girl T that I was indeed a virgin. Girl T was pleased.

 

At first, when I asked Girl T whether I was good, she was evasive. She said, "Sex is like a sport. You get better with practice."

 

One time after sex, Girl T said, "You're getting better and better." Then she blushed and giggled.

 

My advice to any virgin guy is to get it over with as soon as possible. Make up a story about being a non-virgin. But you probably won't have to, because women do not initiate conversations about sex. They love to talk about sex, but if they initiated conversations with guys about sex, then they fear they would look easy.

 

If you can gradually increase body contact while flirting with a girl, then you have the basic skill-set to get laid.

[MD Geist]

why would you want them?

 

I guess your right however when theres not much to work with here theres not much you can do.

 

I have only known a couple of females out there who have valued virginity however they are all married or about to be married or not interested in a relationship.

 

The rest of the women out here don't value it and its really tough to find someone who does.

[Luke Skywalker]

I guess your right however when theres not much to work with here theres not much you can do.

 

It seems you have to throw in the towel until you meet another girl who values virginity and/or is a virgin herself.

 

I have only known a couple of females out there who have valued virginity however they are all married or about to be married or not interested in a relationship.

 

The rest of the women out here don't value it and its really tough to find someone who does.

 

Well, don't do anything and just pray then, what more can I say? You are trying to find a girl in the flesh, it isn't panning out, so as a Christian you have to trust God that you'll meet the right girl, at the right place and time and everything will pan out right. The world thinks you should lose your virginity, but the Bible says your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit - and says that we are called unto holiness not uncleanliness which pretty much rules that out. The rest of women out there don't sound like Christians if they hold such reprobate attitudes so if you go with them you are dating a non-believer anyway.

[MD Geist]

It seems you have to throw in the towel until you meet another girl who values virginity and/or is a virgin herself.

 

Ill have to throw in the towel for life because finding another woman who is just as dateless as me is impossible. Especially in my age group.

[ZeldaPrinces]

I'm a virgin and I promise to be for life. I would like to be in a relationship, but I'm not sure if I will get married. I think sex is such an unneccesary, overrated piece of life, and the emotional connection and love is SO much more important.

[rocio]

the emotional connection and love is SO much more important.

 

They are interconnected.

[StrawberryYogurt]

I lost my virginity when I was sixteen. By then, at least half of my friends were non-virgins. A few were having threesomes. thereforee, I was ashamed that I was a virgin.

 

My advice to any virgin guy is to get it over with as soon as possible. Make up a story about being a non-virgin. But you probably won't have to, because women do not initiate conversations about sex. They love to talk about sex, but if they initiated conversations with guys about sex, then they fear they would look easy.

 

In other words, you do not have a mind of your own and care way too much what other people think. Awesome!

[Imprecision]

StrawberryYogurt,

 

In other words, you do not have a mind of your own and care way too much what other people think. Awesome!

 

If I care what people think, I would post something more PC, such as "Be proud of who you are, virgin or not."

 

Actually, most women don't care whether a man is a virgin or not. I have several virgin friends. As long as they are happy being virgins, then I'm happy for them.

 

Losing your virginity is a rite of passage. Unless a virgin has strong, moral convictions for preserving his virginity, he feels incomplete because of his virginity.

 

Losing my virginity was one of the best things which happened to me. The first night I ever lay with a woman, I thought, "Wow, this must be what Mencius meant when he said, 'The relationship between man and woman in the bedroom is the most important relationship.'" My girl leant her warm, soft body against my shoulder. I felt strong, and I could protect her. I thought, "Today, I know what it means to be a man."

[ZeldaPrinces]

"In other words, you do not have a mind of your own and care way too much what other people think. Awesome!"

I agree.