what to say

[screwface]

i just wanted to know, what's the best thing to do or say when you ask someone out and they say no. i've never been able to get past that sort of stammer and "alright then".

[ProtestTheHero]

It's situational. If you're approaching in a bar/club scene and she says "I'm sorry, no thanks..." I'd probably say something like "No problem. Enjoy your evening," and then go hang out with my friends or focus on a new woman. Basically, you want to show that it doesn't affect your confidence without being a total jerk about it.

 

Saying something like "Your loss" just screams insecurity, so play it off like it's no problem. Don't ever apologize for asking out a woman though.

[NewLogic]

Heya Screwface, I agree with Tyler. Say something positive. Saying something negative or mean is like burning the bridge.. and it may not be the last time you see that girl

[monkey123]

Its hard to learn, I was always bad at it but im getting better now. Just dont pick the hottest girls and try to talk to them, try to have flirting conversations with less attractive woman, not because you want to hook up with them, but just to practice. Act confident and DONT over think the situation. Just dont be afraid of getting rejected because it happeneds to everyone, some woman just think they r hot * * * * and get satisfaction out of shutting a guy down so dont let it ever kill ur confidence. Like tyler said, just be respectful and move to the next girl.