dqueen Posted August 6, 2008 Share Posted August 6, 2008 I love that you were the one who would have had to put in all the effort to see how "sincere" he was!! No kidding! He begged so much that he even offered to pay for my flight tickets and had the nerve to tell me: "Think of it as a free trip to London." I had a whole thread on this if you are interested in reading more. Link to comment
Karmageddon Posted August 6, 2008 Author Share Posted August 6, 2008 Wonder how he pulled that off???? It's like the Hustler version of the Heart Break kid (1972 version of course). File that under "slob." We vacationed quite a few times in key west, so that's when he got to know her. He would always want to go back every year, well come to find out they were having a thing. He just waited for me to go to bed early one night, said he wasn't ready for bed yet & wanted to hit Duvall for a while. Stupid me..."OK, have a good time!"...He did. Link to comment
Karmageddon Posted August 6, 2008 Author Share Posted August 6, 2008 No kidding! He begged so much that he even offered to pay for my flight tickets and had the nerve to tell me: "Think of it as a free trip to London." I had a whole thread on this if you are interested in reading more. ] Wow, he is amazingly selfish! I hope you are doing much better now! Link to comment
Karmageddon Posted August 6, 2008 Author Share Posted August 6, 2008 If you dont come back, il kill myself..... Well?? I have to assume he is still among the living. Link to comment
Mutley Posted August 6, 2008 Share Posted August 6, 2008 We vacationed quite a few times in key west, so that's when he got to know her. He would always want to go back every year, well come to find out they were having a thing. He just waited for me to go to bed early one night, said he wasn't ready for bed yet & wanted to hit Duvall for a while. Stupid me..."OK, have a good time!"...He did. Simply amazing. Link to comment
starlight40 Posted August 6, 2008 Share Posted August 6, 2008 Well?? I have to assume he is still among the living. Yes, the manipulating control freak is alive and kicking. We are NC now, thank god Link to comment
Karmageddon Posted August 6, 2008 Author Share Posted August 6, 2008 Yes, the manipulating control freak is alive and kicking. We are NC now, thank god Perhaps you should remind him that he needs to keep his promise!! Link to comment
Karmageddon Posted August 6, 2008 Author Share Posted August 6, 2008 Simply amazing. Yes, when he asked where I wanted to go on our honeymoon, I said "anywhere but Key West".....I didn't even know about her then, I was just tired of going! Link to comment
Mutley Posted August 6, 2008 Share Posted August 6, 2008 How did you find out about her? Link to comment
Catdancer Posted August 6, 2008 Share Posted August 6, 2008 The most ridiculous thing ever said to me to get me back was.... "you know you cant live without me". ugh... I'm alive! Link to comment
starlight40 Posted August 6, 2008 Share Posted August 6, 2008 Perhaps you should remind him that he needs to keep his promise!! Ugh dont, i was devastated at the time, what an awful thing to put onto someone, i felt terrible, just shows what a horrible person he is. He once actually text saying 'i hope you die a horrible death', lovely guy. Link to comment
Karmageddon Posted August 6, 2008 Author Share Posted August 6, 2008 How did you find out about her? Sadly I didn't start picking up on a lot of this stuff till after the fact. So I went and got a keystroke logger. Trust is a big thing for me & I figured I would have to live with my own guilt if I was wrong, but obviously, I wasn't Link to comment
Hopelives Posted August 6, 2008 Share Posted August 6, 2008 BMOC = big man on campus he still doesn't know we referred to him as "highlighter ..." referring to appendages... or lack-thereof! Link to comment
Karmageddon Posted August 6, 2008 Author Share Posted August 6, 2008 bmoc = big man on campus he still doesn't know we referred to him as "highlighter ..." referring to appendages... Or lack-thereof! d'oh!!! Lmao!!! Link to comment
Iakasot Posted August 7, 2008 Share Posted August 7, 2008 I disagree. We haven't all been the dumpers and the dumpees. Vast majority of relationships are ended by women. I was dumped in all of my relationships, and have quite a few friends that deal with the same predicament. Perhaps you do not feel that way as a woman, since you dumped so many men and FINALLY after many relationships ran into one that dumped you before you could dump him. He's a quick one, that guy. Link to comment
Karmageddon Posted August 7, 2008 Author Share Posted August 7, 2008 I disagree. We haven't all been the dumpers and the dumpees. Vast majority of relationships are ended by women. I was dumped in all of my relationships, and have quite a few friends that deal with the same predicament. Perhaps you do not feel that way as a woman, since you dumped so many men and FINALLY after many relationships ran into one that dumped you before you could dump him. He's a quick one, that guy. I'm not sure where it says in my post that I have dumped so many men or why you would get that impression. The intent of the post was to poke a little fun at the fact that we have all dated some real "winners" & make us all feel a little better by hearing some the the really stupid things people have said to us after the fact, whether we were the dumper or dumpee. On another note, I see that you are fairly young, I can promise you that there will be a day that you will have to end a relationship with some one & it stinks. Please do not use any of the above statements. Link to comment
Iakasot Posted August 7, 2008 Share Posted August 7, 2008 I'm not sure where it says in my post that I have dumped so many men or why you would get that impression. The intent of the post was to poke a little fun at the fact that we have all dated some real "winners" & make us all feel a little better by hearing some the the really stupid things people have said to us after the fact, whether we were the dumper or dumpee. On another note, I see that you are fairly young, I can promise you that there will be a day that you will have to end a relationship with some one & it stinks. Please do not use any of the above statements. I said "perhaps", and I got the impression from the statistics of how relationships end. Well, if you're gonna pull that then, I'll ask you straight up, how many relationships have you been in, and was that the only guy that dumped you? That should settle it, right? You should read this blog: link removed Link to comment
Karmageddon Posted August 7, 2008 Author Share Posted August 7, 2008 I said "perhaps", and I got the impression from the statistics of how relationships end. Well, if you're gonna pull that then, I'll ask you straight up, how many relationships have you been in, and was that the only guy that dumped you? That should settle it, right? You should read this blog: link removed Okie doke, lets see if I can remember that far back No relationships in high school as I was a dork soooo I would say 8 long term relationships and I was dumped in right about half of them. These were relationships of 2 yrs or more. Your turn. How many relationships have you had. I already know your stance on being dumped. Link to comment
FuzzyKitten Posted August 7, 2008 Share Posted August 7, 2008 Ok, this one is definitely the craziest.... My best friends ex boyfriend actually told her that HE was PREGNANT with their child. He said that "the dr said that its very rare but can happen" apparently, her egg somehow ended up inside his penis, where it became fertilized and started growing. He was trying to get her to go with him to the doctor because "It can't survive and they have to kill our child" Of course, she didn't believe him, but can you imagine that? He was obviously one desperate guy. They were young though, about 18/19. CRAZINESS!!! Link to comment
maire clair Posted August 7, 2008 Share Posted August 7, 2008 well thank you for that laugh i really needed it!!!! that is just the most mental of mental statements ive heard in my time. i wish him good luck with that one... god help us!! Link to comment
Iakasot Posted August 8, 2008 Share Posted August 8, 2008 Okie doke, lets see if I can remember that far back No relationships in high school as I was a dork soooo I would say 8 long term relationships and I was dumped in right about half of them. These were relationships of 2 yrs or more. Your turn. How many relationships have you had. I already know your stance on being dumped. I had 3 serious ones, dumped in all 3. And the non-serious stuff, I could tell that the girl lost interest in me, and contact sort of just broke off. By the way, did you do all the dumping in your prime before you started losing appeal? Did you even read the article? Link to comment
Karmageddon Posted August 8, 2008 Author Share Posted August 8, 2008 did you do all the dumping in your prime before you started losing appeal? Did you even read the article? Lose appeal? Yes, but I prefer to get my facts from more scientific methods. Link to comment
Karmageddon Posted August 8, 2008 Author Share Posted August 8, 2008 Ok, this one is definitely the craziest.... My best friends ex boyfriend actually told her that HE was PREGNANT with their child. He said that "the dr said that its very rare but can happen" apparently, her egg somehow ended up inside his penis, where it became fertilized and started growing. He was trying to get her to go with him to the doctor because "It can't survive and they have to kill our child" Of course, she didn't believe him, but can you imagine that? He was obviously one desperate guy. They were young though, about 18/19. CRAZINESS!!! Oh my goodness!!! LOL!! That is a really good one!! Link to comment
Iakasot Posted August 9, 2008 Share Posted August 9, 2008 Lose appeal? Yes, but I prefer to get my facts from more scientific methods. By lose appeal, I mean you're not young anymore, and guys don't really give you attention like they used to. Studies that involve couples after the relationship ends aren't scientific method? Link to comment
beentheredonetha Posted August 9, 2008 Share Posted August 9, 2008 "So, we will leave for Paris tomorrow, I have booked the tickets and hotel." - ex husband, two months after i left him and had not heard from him. Link to comment
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