christinesee Posted August 5, 2008 Share Posted August 5, 2008 Just as I was really trying to get this cyber guy off my mind..today I heard a song on the radio one that he dedicated to me. I remember him typing the words and sending them to me in writing it made me so happy. Then.. What do I see while on vacation?? But a guy that looked very much like him about the same age and all. So now all the feelings came flooding back. I wish I could erase him from my brain..UGH!!! Link to comment
lisa1126 Posted August 6, 2008 Share Posted August 6, 2008 I am sorry... Your thoughts of this guy will certainly fade over time... Just keep moving and don't ever go back to contacting him. Link to comment
mgirl Posted August 6, 2008 Share Posted August 6, 2008 Just as I was really trying to get this cyber guy off my mind..today I heard a song on the radio one that he dedicated to me. I remember him typing the words and sending them to me in writing it made me so happy. Then.. What do I see while on vacation?? But a guy that looked very much like him about the same age and all. So now all the feelings came flooding back. I wish I could erase him from my brain..UGH!!! Either meet him in person or speak with him over the phone. That will soon erase any fantasies you have about him. Lol. Link to comment
christinesee Posted August 6, 2008 Author Share Posted August 6, 2008 Either meet him in person or speak with him over the phone. That will soon erase any fantasies you have about him. Lol. Well..I was talking with him on the phone until he vanished. However he probably is just one big fantasy to me. I have to remember that when I start thinking about him. Link to comment
veda999 Posted August 6, 2008 Share Posted August 6, 2008 Well..I was talking with him on the phone until he vanished. However he probably is just one big fantasy to me. I have to remember that when I start thinking about him. Generally, when I discovered beyond a shadow of a doubt that someone is not interested in me, I lose interest really really fast. You should have closed the book on this guy when you dialed his discontinued number. you need to consider whether you have a real fear of intimacy that you should deal with. You are letting this fantasy prevent you from real intimacy with a real person. There is nothing wrong with that, but you need to face that. Life is short. Don't waste it. Link to comment
christinesee Posted August 7, 2008 Author Share Posted August 7, 2008 Generally, when I discovered beyond a shadow of a doubt that someone is not interested in me, I lose interest really really fast. You should have closed the book on this guy when you dialed his discontinued number. you need to consider whether you have a real fear of intimacy that you should deal with. You are letting this fantasy prevent you from real intimacy with a real person. There is nothing wrong with that, but you need to face that. Life is short. Don't waste it. I see what your saying and this is something that I will think about..could very well be possible. Thanks for your imput. Link to comment
mattysfun Posted August 8, 2008 Share Posted August 8, 2008 remember the good times. think of him like his dead. thats sounds weird but do it. Link to comment
christinesee Posted August 9, 2008 Author Share Posted August 9, 2008 remember the good times. think of him like his dead. thats sounds weird but do it. Makes perfect sense. Thanks Matty. Link to comment
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