Question for the men

[winter whiteout]

If you were in a bar or any social gathering and a woman you find attractive asked you if you wanted to have sex after you have been talking a while what would you think of her? Even if she told you she has not had sex in many years and seems like a woman who does not sleep around. Would you still think of her being a hoe?

[Loki71]

I wouldn't care if she was or not. If I was single and in the mood I would just go and enjoy.

[SchecterGuy]

I would think nothing of it other than I hope I am sober enough to not have to pay cab fare.

[Crazyaboutdogs]

If you were in a bar or any social gathering and a woman you find attractive asked you if you wanted to have sex after you have been talking a while what would you think of her? Even if she told you she has not had sex in many years and seems like a woman who does not sleep around. Would you still think of her being a hoe?

 

I suspect that this is what you would like to do. First of all, if you did that I doubt very much that most men would believe that you hadn't had sex in a while. Most women use the standard line of "I have never done this before"...that line has become just as cliche as any pickup line. So while it may be true that you haven't, most men would probably roll their eyes and think to themselves "yeah right, she probably does this kind of thing all the time". Irrespective of what the guy is going to think...how will you feel about yourself? Supposing you go ahead with it, how will you feel about yourself? Once you go down this road, where does it stop? You will continually get urges to have sex and then will you be trolling around looking for the next one night stand...and the next and the next? Before you go down this road, you should stop and think about how this will play out long-term. Like a drug, you will keep wanting a fix and after the first time, you will no longer be able to claim that you never do this sort of thing.

[pinkelephant]

If you were in a bar or any social gathering and a woman you find attractive asked you if you wanted to have sex after you have been talking a while what would you think of her? Even if she told you she has not had sex in many years and seems like a woman who does not sleep around. Would you still think of her being a hoe?

 

doesn't matter what she says, doesn't matter what she seems.

 

 

 

how is her action?

she wants to sleep with a stranger.

 

 

then it's safe to assume that she will sleep with any stranger and you just happen to be there at the right (or wrong...) time and place. these questions are silly, no offense because it's like denying being promiscuous while wanting to act out your promiscuity's urges.

 

if you wanna do it, do it. don't make excuses. it's weak. if you already want to have sex with a stranger, don't be surprised for people to assume your moral values.

[Casey13]

Don't judge her and if you want the same go for it. In time you will find out what she's all about so it's too early to tell. I would not cut her off though just based on your early assumption of her being a * * * * .

[brycen_green]

i think you could get herpes? but man thats nasty. or she could be a little tipsy?

[grymoire]

If you were in a bar or any social gathering and a woman you find attractive asked you if you wanted to have sex after you have been talking a while what would you think of her? Even if she told you she has not had sex in many years and seems like a woman who does not sleep around. Would you still think of her being a hoe?

 

I would appreciate her!

[winter whiteout]

Well I guess I feel real stupid for posting this now. Of course I don't want to do this kind of thing but my body tells me otherwise. Taking care of myself does not work anymore I need the touch of a man. I have tried all the different sites and services too meet someone but I have not had any luck. In a certain way I would not even care if I was not aroused 24/7. I am going through my sexual peak and it is killing me. I think I might ask my GYN to give me something to lower my testosterone levels so I can stop living this hell. I can't go out and just sleep with someone.

[Loki71]

Do you have any male friends that are single? If so they may be willing to help you out.

[pinkelephant]

don't feel stupid. it's a reasonable question, we're just answering. we don't think any less of you.

[bertdru]

Well I guess I feel real stupid for posting this now. Of course I don't want to do this kind of thing but my body tells me otherwise. Taking care of myself does not work anymore I need the touch of a man. I have tried all the different sites and services too meet someone but I have not had any luck. In a certain way I would not even care if I was not aroused 24/7. I am going through my sexual peak and it is killing me. I think I might ask my GYN to give me something to lower my testosterone levels so I can stop living this hell. I can't go out and just sleep with someone.

 

 

Yes you should feel guilty, wanting sex means you are a * * * * *

 

When will women change? What's the worst that could happen if you sleep with a trusted friend or something? Goodness.

[DeviousDevil]

I'd think nothing the less of a woman who did that.

 

I'd just take it she was really into me - hehe.

 

In fact, all my girlfriends since I've become an adult didn't waste time...which I saw as a good thing as I do think physical attraction is an important part.

 

What I would say, is be careful not to appear desperate and to not throw yourself at just any man. You don't need to say that you don't do this often, just appear really interested in the 'victim' you've selected and they'll take it as a compliment

[surfjon]

Uh....hello??

 

Is this for real??

 

Make sure Jimbrowski must wear a cap....

Just in case the young girl gots the clap!!

[ghost69]

i feel the same way about some women i meet. i want to do them on the spot. why knock her?

[Lionel Hutz]

That behavior is fishy in more ways than one.

[Cognitive_Canine]

I agree with the person who suggested getting it on with a guy friend. It seems a lot safer. A lot of weirdos out there.

[Crazyaboutdogs]

Well I guess I feel real stupid for posting this now. Of course I don't want to do this kind of thing but my body tells me otherwise. Taking care of myself does not work anymore I need the touch of a man. I have tried all the different sites and services too meet someone but I have not had any luck. In a certain way I would not even care if I was not aroused 24/7. I am going through my sexual peak and it is killing me. I think I might ask my GYN to give me something to lower my testosterone levels so I can stop living this hell. I can't go out and just sleep with someone.

 

If you feel stupid simply posting this, how would you feel actually going through with it. Posting about this is nothing...it is simply the thoughts in your head. You shouldn't feel stupid for posting this...clearly you are not sure what to do and your sexual feelings are driving you around the bend. I think talking to your gyne is a good idea. Maybe there is something out there that will curb your desires so that you will be able to focus yourself on other things. The more you dwell, the more likely you will do something that you could very much regret later on. Even finding an FWB comes with very big risks...the risk of getting emotionally involved..the risk of the FWB finding a real relationship and then you will be back to square one dealing with sexual urges and no place to scratch the itch. In other words, in the long run you are better off trying to deal with this on your own rather than looking for a sex partner...because sex partners and orgasms are fleeting and if the urge is that strong it will just take over your whole life. Lots of people have to deal with dry spells..it most certainly is do-able...talk to your gyne and see what he /she can advise.

[IMAbadman]

Hell, I'm game.

[Superfreak]

If an attractive girl did that and I was single, first I'd think it was a joke because that would be extremely out of the ordinary for me. If I didn't manage to screw things up by being skeptical of her (which I probably would), then I'd probably do it.

 

I would have alot of respect for her. That may sound silly since society says that by doing this you're "not respecting your body", but it would be really refreshing for a girl to take the lead. Having the confidence to cut straight to the point would be a real turn on for me.

 

I don't know if I'd believe her that she's never done this before though. The "I've never done this before" line is practically a cliche. But my opinion shouldn't matter if we're just having sex for one night.

[doyathink]

WW! Still no release? Damn dudette....when are you going to find you a man?! Oh hell, the girls and I will be over tonight with strippers....

 

what time works best for you?