allypally Posted August 5, 2008 Share Posted August 5, 2008 Another thing to vent .... I have ultra-sensitive skin, and my bf insists on not shaving even though he knows how much it scratches me up - its driving me totally nuts!! I end up with sores all over my face and body - can't take it any more. Am not going to allow him to stay over this evening - fed up. There is stubble rash, then there is STUBBLE RASH! He is ruining my skin which is one of my best features. I look like a freak now. Am at wits end. Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted August 5, 2008 Share Posted August 5, 2008 yeah, don't put up with it. If he wants to go necking, he should be concerned for your comfort too. Rather selfish. Link to comment
Mutley Posted August 5, 2008 Share Posted August 5, 2008 He doesn't remember that you told him that. Link to comment
allypally Posted August 5, 2008 Author Share Posted August 5, 2008 Well, given that I have a bad raw red rash on my neck now, you'd think that he would consider shaving so that I wasn't in more pain? He wanted sex the other night and I wouldn't do it - pointed out to him that it hurt and I was sore. He told him again that he HAD to shave because he was making it even worse. Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted August 5, 2008 Share Posted August 5, 2008 Well, given that I have a bad raw red rash on my neck now, you'd think that he would consider shaving so that I wasn't in more pain? He wanted sex the other night and I wouldn't do it - pointed out to him that it hurt and I was sore. He told him again that he HAD to shave because he was making it even worse. don't make out or do anything that would cause you pain because he refuses to shave. That's not fair to you at all. Link to comment
ImThatGirl Posted August 5, 2008 Share Posted August 5, 2008 Did your boyfriend have this stubble / facial hair when you first started dating him? How much facial hair is it? Link to comment
Mutley Posted August 5, 2008 Share Posted August 5, 2008 He doesn't remember that you told him that. Didn't you get my joke? Link to comment
allypally Posted August 5, 2008 Author Share Posted August 5, 2008 He has always had it. He doesn't have a beard, but he is always * * * * * ly and it is like thousands of needles etching my skin - absolutely hate it - turns me off. He says other women have never mentioned it - don't believe him at all on that one. Link to comment
ImThatGirl Posted August 5, 2008 Share Posted August 5, 2008 He has always had it. He doesn't have a beard, but he is always * * * * * ly and it is like thousands of needles etching my skin - absolutely hate it - turns me off. He says other women have never mentioned it - don't believe him at all on that one. I think it's hot... Little stubble.. Always. And if he had it then, maybe you could have asked him if once you two were serious, if he'd be willing to shave down to a completely clean face... What's really the problem here Ally? Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted August 5, 2008 Share Posted August 5, 2008 He has always had it. He doesn't have a beard, but he is always * * * * * ly and it is like thousands of needles etching my skin - absolutely hate it - turns me off. He says other women have never mentioned it - don't believe him at all on that one. It doesn't matter what other women say anyway. It hurts you. Link to comment
allypally Posted August 5, 2008 Author Share Posted August 5, 2008 Yes Mutley! I did! Ha Ha!! Stuck record syndrome perchance?! Link to comment
Mutley Posted August 5, 2008 Share Posted August 5, 2008 yep. Maybe he needs a remedial shaving course? Link to comment
allypally Posted August 5, 2008 Author Share Posted August 5, 2008 The real problem I'mThatGirl is being discussed in my main post "bf going on fishing trip with two male colleagues and one attractive female colleague". Read on! Link to comment
pinkelephant Posted August 5, 2008 Share Posted August 5, 2008 i make my bfs shave before seeing me. they always do. if they stay over, they bring a razor with them. put your foot down. while it's a turn on for me tooo, it's not the next morning when my skin is all scratched up. i don't put up with it. Link to comment
allypally Posted August 5, 2008 Author Share Posted August 5, 2008 I like the look of it, but not the feel of it - simple as that. Yes, I will insist, although with the way things are going at the moment, and we're talking the Bigger Picture here, there won't be any opportunity for me to get scratched up anymore. Link to comment
ImThatGirl Posted August 5, 2008 Share Posted August 5, 2008 Are there not any men here that will comment about this? Guys - If a girl told you shave or else, what would you say or do? I just can't imagine being that girl I suppose? Link to comment
pinkelephant Posted August 5, 2008 Share Posted August 5, 2008 Are there not any men here that will comment about this? Guys - If a girl told you shave or else, what would you say or do? I just can't imagine being that girl I suppose? I've done it with every guy i've been with. they've been happy to accommodate me. it's absurd to think otherwise, because if he's necking me, it's for my pleasure(as well as his). & if he says no, then am i just a blow up doll for him? is sex just extended masturbation then? Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted August 5, 2008 Share Posted August 5, 2008 Are there not any men here that will comment about this? Guys - If a girl told you shave or else, what would you say or do? I just can't imagine being that girl I suppose? I once went over to my ex's house after he was all done with work. We were snuggling and I commented on his stubble. Nothing bad either, just something like "getting a little rough around the edges, eh? haha". He got up and shaved and came back to snuggle. ROFL I was pretty surprised but it was rather funny and pretty nice of him. Link to comment
allypally Posted August 5, 2008 Author Share Posted August 5, 2008 Debaser Wolf - I have done that lots of times, phrased it in a humorous way and he just says "Do I have to? I'm tired" etc. Link to comment
pinkelephant Posted August 5, 2008 Share Posted August 5, 2008 Debaser Wolf - I have done that lots of times, phrased it in a humorous way and he just says "Do I have to? I'm tired" etc. lol say no, you don't have to. then roll over and sleep. hahaha. don't nag guys, just show them the consequences. Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted August 5, 2008 Share Posted August 5, 2008 Debaser Wolf - I have done that lots of times, phrased it in a humorous way and he just says "Do I have to? I'm tired" etc. maybe he just isn't that serious with you. It's the little things that count after all. All my bf's have tried their hardest to make me comfortable. It really shows they care. Link to comment
allypally Posted August 5, 2008 Author Share Posted August 5, 2008 And thats exactly what I do! Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted August 5, 2008 Share Posted August 5, 2008 lol say no, you don't have to. then roll over and sleep. hahaha. don't nag guys, just show them the consequences. yeah, give them what they give you. If they don't care about your comfort...don't be so eager to comfort them. Link to comment
allypally Posted August 5, 2008 Author Share Posted August 5, 2008 You know what he did? He pleasured himself right in front of me and I mean I was actually embarrassed. Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted August 5, 2008 Share Posted August 5, 2008 You know what he did? He pleasured himself right in front of me and I mean I was actually embarrassed. why are you dating him? Link to comment
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