beingbrave Posted August 5, 2008 Share Posted August 5, 2008 A friend of mine has a wedding to plan. There's just one thing getting in the way of her guest list. An old stagnant relationship between her and her sister. She told me not to use her real name on here, so I'll call her "Sue" and I'll call her sister "Pam". Sue is getting married next year. She is inviting all of her friends and family, with the exception of her sister Pam. She is really having a hard time putting her on the guest list. I keep on telling her that this is a once in a life time event, and that she should have ALL of her family there, no matter what! However, she feels that she shouldn't invite Pam because Pam owes her over $5,000. Sue lent Pam a loan about three years ago and Pam still hasn't paid it back. Sue feels betrayed by her sister, because she told her she would pay it back within one year of taking the loan. Instead, Pam disappeared for two years without a phone call, etc. Pam has been back for about a year now. Since then, Sue has kept herself distant from Pam. What should Sue do? What kind of advice can I give her? I personally don't care for Pam, but I think she should be there. They're sisters. Link to comment
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