TrinaF Posted August 5, 2008 Share Posted August 5, 2008 I am pretty short at 5 1 but i have a really big bust (DD). They drew so much attention through my early years but now in my late 20's it seems like they still are the focus. Real or fake questions and the stares. Is there a point in life where the actual woman takes the focus over her bust size? I have thought of breast reduction but then i think why make them smaller for other people? And i just cant do that. Input welcome. Link to comment
okay Posted August 5, 2008 Share Posted August 5, 2008 Seems like U’r gift is also U’r curse. Question to U is what do U feel about U’r body? Do U like them like that? So U’r question is how to find person who loves U & not just want to f**k U. Many agree that all guys get attracted to body not personality; personality if happens is later. Good news is that U have lots of choices. Don’t give guys what they want, first find out if person is what U want, if they respect & love U. Link to comment
TrinaF Posted August 5, 2008 Author Share Posted August 5, 2008 i understand what your saying, but is not like i can keep them at home until i find a guy who likes me for me and say buy they way i also have these LOL. Link to comment
pinkelephant Posted August 5, 2008 Share Posted August 5, 2008 how do you dress? my mom huge boobs. they're like, as big as her head haha. but she's a very serious woman professionally and not one peep out of the men. Link to comment
TrinaF Posted August 5, 2008 Author Share Posted August 5, 2008 There always covered. I work at a bank so always professional outfits there. I dont have any tops that show much cleavage at all. I wear tight sports bras alot to help keep some what in check but being short and small waisted they just stick out like the old sore thumb Link to comment
okay Posted August 5, 2008 Share Posted August 5, 2008 What I'm saying U may not have choice about guys getting attracted to U'r boobs, but by taking it slow & not giving them what they want, U can find out if they like who U're & if U like them. Link to comment
RockabillyLove Posted August 5, 2008 Share Posted August 5, 2008 DD isn't very big.. I'm a 14GG, and I'm 5"7! Just be proud of your body, it could be a hella lot worse! Link to comment
pinkelephant Posted August 5, 2008 Share Posted August 5, 2008 14? don't they go from 32 to like 40? anyway, no they don't get better. my bestfriend has huge boobs and so guys pay attention a lot to those as well, not much you can do except develop thicker skin. i'm not sure how, but my mom never gets them. guys are mostly scared of her though lol. Link to comment
Loki71 Posted August 5, 2008 Share Posted August 5, 2008 s there a point in life where the actual woman takes the focus over her bust size? I am sure you know by now that there will always be people looking. Sorry but I doubt it will ever stop, but will you find someone who is into you and not just them? I believe you will. My wife was like you but her back was always hurting so I told her she should get them reduced and I would support her because I didn't care what size she was. So yes there are some of us men that are not in to a womans chest and don't care what size they are. Link to comment
pinkelephant Posted August 5, 2008 Share Posted August 5, 2008 Scared of your mom? ya, i've never seen a man out of line with her except for my dad. she kicked him to the curb when i was 3 lol. Link to comment
thejigsup Posted August 5, 2008 Share Posted August 5, 2008 I am the proud owner of a pair of 40 DDs. No one says a word about them or noticeably looks at them except my bf. It's all in how you carry yourself. I have never had a problem with that, and I sometimes wear some pretty low cut tops. Try making people notice you, not your breasts. Link to comment
Jelina Posted August 5, 2008 Share Posted August 5, 2008 I am pretty short at 5 1 but i have a really big bust (DD). They drew so much attention through my early years but now in my late 20's it seems like they still are the focus. Real or fake questions and the stares. Is there a point in life where the actual woman takes the focus over her bust size? I have thought of breast reduction but then i think why make them smaller for other people? And i just cant do that. Input welcome. Don't change your body. I think that if you meet guys, and get to know them, you will be able to tell who's into you and who's into your boobs. Don't assume that every guy will only be after you just because of your boobs. There are still alot of good guys out there. Link to comment
Konyak Posted August 5, 2008 Share Posted August 5, 2008 Seems like U’r gift is also U’r curse. Question to U is what do U feel about U’r body? Do U like them like that? So U’r question is how to find person who loves U & not just want to f**k U. Many agree that all guys get attracted to body not personality; personality if happens is later. Good news is that U have lots of choices. Don’t give guys what they want, first find out if person is what U want, if they respect & love U. Have to disagree with you on the all guys situation. But back to the problem. Well, you shouldn't worry about it. If you feel comfortable with them then it's no big deal. Guys will stare, let them. Just don't give them what they want. It makes them go crazy. Trust me. Link to comment
sadbunny Posted August 5, 2008 Share Posted August 5, 2008 im 5 3 and im an E cup so i know what its like, next time a guy looks at your chest instead of your eyes when talking just point out that your eyes are up here not down there and he will be the embarressed one, it works for me! Link to comment
Supa_gurl Posted August 5, 2008 Share Posted August 5, 2008 I was much like you... I am also 5'1". and I was a G (yes they make that size) cup! Six years ago I made the decision to had a reduction. It was the best decision I ever made. But to each there own, right? I don't think you should do it for other people. I had shoulder, neck, and back problems (also have scoliosis) that pushed me to have it done. My family was supportive, I was lucky. But only do it if you are doing it for you. Now at a D, I actually want to be smaller! We are never happy with ourselves. geez! Good luck to you, and Mr. Right will come along and fall in love with YOU. Link to comment
stella777 Posted August 5, 2008 Share Posted August 5, 2008 I have 32 E cup breasts. it is not very big actually, but it shows itself. I have never felt that people are staring or something but I know guys notice that from the stuff I hear. Oh well, it is not that big a deal. Just wear clothes that dont show them that much and if you think someone is into you just becuz of your boobs, just ignore them. and I am afraid as long as your boobs dont change people's behavior wont change Link to comment
amtjrtcet Posted August 5, 2008 Share Posted August 5, 2008 I am pretty short at 5 1 but i have a really big bust (DD). They drew so much attention through my early years but now in my late 20's it seems like they still are the focus. Real or fake questions and the stares. Is there a point in life where the actual woman takes the focus over her bust size? I have thought of breast reduction but then i think why make them smaller for other people? And i just cant do that. Input welcome. Do they bother you? I mean like back pain? You could get a reduction..... Link to comment
emmie_g Posted August 5, 2008 Share Posted August 5, 2008 Im 5"2 and a 32F, Im 18. No-one will ever stop looking i dont think. But in my own mind i have kind of blocked it. Yeah i have big boobs, use them to your benefit...i do lol!! Link to comment
ghost69 Posted August 5, 2008 Share Posted August 5, 2008 no, they will always get looks. that big on such a small frame, someone will always look. Link to comment
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