Jetta Posted August 4, 2008 Share Posted August 4, 2008 Wish I wasn't such a dork before and actually his name or maybe even a date. But he's still smiling at me, so maybe I didn't screw it up entirely or else he's just being nice. It was a big smile too. Yeah I know but he's cute. Link to comment
bmwm3 Posted August 4, 2008 Share Posted August 4, 2008 Well hes the guy.. and if he is a man.. and likes you he should be the one going up to you... my take on it is i like when girls come up to me in thoery...... but when the actually do come up to me.. it kinda of a turn off... i am thinking does she go up to every guy... this weekend i had 5girls come up to me.. talk and give me there number.. 2different places.. i was kinda of turned of by it... maybe go back.. give him a smile.. and let him make the move... if he doesnt do you really want a guy that doesnt have the guts to go after what he wants??? Link to comment
Jetta Posted August 4, 2008 Author Share Posted August 4, 2008 He made a move once and I kind of blew him off because it really caught me off guard. He stood up, stared me down, and looked like he was going to approach but when I wasn't as receptive he showed obvious dissappointment. I was just in shock he's the librarian. Anyway he's still smiling so maybe there's hope. Link to comment
bmwm3 Posted August 4, 2008 Share Posted August 4, 2008 Yes def theres still hope... he is prob a little scared to approach you again.. he tried once and maybe he thought you didnt want him to approach you... go up to him ask a question.. regarding a book, whatever.. something general... then see if he takes the inative to ask more about you... this way you dont have to go up to him and ask him out... he is the libarian.. he is there for questions.. so perfect.... Link to comment
bijoux27 Posted August 4, 2008 Share Posted August 4, 2008 I love guys who love reading. Always wanted to meet a guy at a bookstore. Link to comment
ImThatGirl Posted August 4, 2008 Share Posted August 4, 2008 How fun!!!! Real time meeting someone... Keep us posted! Link to comment
matman Posted August 4, 2008 Share Posted August 4, 2008 Well hes the guy.. and if he is a man.. and likes you he should be the one going up to you... my take on it is i like when girls come up to me in thoery...... but when the actually do come up to me.. it kinda of a turn off... i am thinking does she go up to every guy... this weekend i had 5girls come up to me.. talk and give me there number.. 2different places.. i was kinda of turned of by it... maybe go back.. give him a smile.. and let him make the move... if he doesnt do you really want a guy that doesnt have the guts to go after what he wants??? Why does the guy have to go up to the girl? I've had girls come up and chat me up in the past - it's a massive turn on as they are into you. Link to comment
bmwm3 Posted August 4, 2008 Share Posted August 4, 2008 guys dont have to.... i have girls come up to me everytime i go out.... i just prefer that i go up to them... reason if she comes up to me she will go up to other guys.... and theres nothing wrong with it.... i have dated premiscous girls and wholesome girls... the ones you party with and the ones you settle down with... all the party girls go up to guys and wholesome girls wait for the guy to make the move.... hey i dont mind a girl that comes up to me.. but i usally dont end up dating them long.... we all have our opnoions and experinces.... and thats just my prefrence Link to comment
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