djsh4dow Posted August 4, 2008 Share Posted August 4, 2008 Let's say you're a guy (or girl) and your girlfriend (or boyfriend) has individuals over of the opposite sex that you do not know. Is it fair for that person to say "I just want to hang out with my friends tonight" and not invite you over or even allow you to come over if you ask? Doesn't this seem a little shady? Would this worry you? Link to comment
Rising Posted August 4, 2008 Share Posted August 4, 2008 Nope seems perfectly okay. People gotta have their own space and their own lives outside the relationship. If its a cheating thing then it will present itself in other ways. I say don't go looking for fire til you see and smell the smoke. -Rising Link to comment
Rabican Posted August 4, 2008 Share Posted August 4, 2008 I believe it is ok to hang out with friends of the opposite sex. However that should be done in public, and not behind locked doors. That behavior is fine and dandy for a single person, not however for someone in a relationship. Especially if that person (you) is uncomfortable with the situation. Tell your bf you dont like the idea of him hanging out alone with another girl... if he cannot simply meet her at the bookstore, or movies, or the park, or somewhere that doesnt have a bed, or a shower... then you can bet your last dollar that something bad is going on. Now, if you meet said girl, and realize... hey this girl is just fine, he treats her like a sister.. then feel free to tell your man (or woman) that its fine to hang out with them... but by all means if you arent ok with it, then you shouldnt have to put up with it. Link to comment
Dr Posted August 4, 2008 Share Posted August 4, 2008 Personally ity would worry the hell out of me. 2 people enter into a relationship to be TOGETHER right? - Not to suddenly need space and hang around with members of the opposite sex! It just seems odd to me. When I first met my current GF she was very paranoid about me knowing other women... just as I was about her knowing other men! We've been together almost 5 years now (and living together well over 4 of them)! So... bearing in mind we've been very successful, how do couples that suddenly need space to be with other members of the opposite sex intend to make their relationship last? Link to comment
jcrisph Posted August 4, 2008 Share Posted August 4, 2008 Let's say you're a guy (or girl) and your girlfriend (or boyfriend) has individuals over of the opposite sex that you do not know. Is it fair for that person to say "I just want to hang out with my friends tonight" and not invite you over or even allow you to come over if you ask? Doesn't this seem a little shady? Would this worry you?Um this would def make me worry. Plus, on top of it you dont even know these people. Seems shady to me Link to comment
ghost69 Posted August 5, 2008 Share Posted August 5, 2008 weird she doesn't want you to meet them. Link to comment
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