6 months later and I am still without sex

[winter whiteout]

I posted here back in February on how I had not had sex for 3 years and I was going crazy. Here it is 6 months later and still no man, no sex. I have figured out my testosterone levels are very high (that is what gives a woman high libido) and I am at the point of wanting to grab the first attractive man that shows me any interest. Of course I really don't want to do that but my body is screaming so loud at me and won't shut up. If I don't masterbate I go crazy. If I do masterbate the urge comes back stronger a little while later. I long for a man's touch so bad. I see an attractive man and my whole body shakes from being so horny. I mostly see them at work but they are all married and of course I would never crush on any of them. I just wish my body would leave me alone. I have tried stupid online dating sites and they have not worked. I am looking for a mature man who has a decent job and will except me with my RSD condition. But the sex thing is driving me crazy and I can't concentrate on anything anymore. I am not into one or two night stands but if I am waiting for a special man to come along it might be another 3 years.

 

Thank you all for listening. I needed to let this out.

[zachiphus]

I was going to suggest go to a bar or club, but since you don't want it to be a fling, I dont know what to tell you.

[Jetta]

What's RSD? Why hasn't on-line dating worked out for you? Well it hasn't for me either but you could ask some friends to set you up.

[winter whiteout]

I am in my 40's and have no friends that know any single men. RSD is a nerve condition and I can't walk too long without being in pain. By looking at me at first you can't tell I have this condition but when I walk with a slight limp you can. I was in a serious car accident in 1999 and broke my ankle and developed RSD from it. It is a rare condition and very hard to understand. But I need sex from a man so bad but I want a loving relationship. I feel like an 18 year old young man with a throbbing sex drive. Help!

[Aschleigh]

ok sex or libido is energy. You have a lot. Do you have lots of creative outlet? What about exercise? Or a new country to explore? New countries are good for getting laid too.

Anyway, either lower you standards or live with it. Lots of guys to have sex with. Come on to one of them in a bar and it will probably work. Talk to every attractive guy you see for the next 2 weeks, you will have sex.

[Jetta]

You can do what I've done and pray to God to remove your sex drive. It has helped a lot. I still want sex, miss sex, but not as much as I would be. Just a thought I thought I'd share.

[chocolate-cake]

The RSD doesnt sound like anything bad that would stop you getting a man, ppl have alot more faults than that, but i think a man never comes when ur waiting for one everyday, cant u take up some groups or classes to meet new ppl, and keep trying the online thing.

[Dr]

Hmm you want a man with a good job eh? - You know you're not going to find anyone like that straight away. It sounds to me like you want a damn good shag but also want a life long partner at the same time. Concentrate on one.

 

I'm sure there must be tons of men where you work who are bored and would enjoy casual sex. The thing is though, you can't be choosy! You either want sex ASAP or you don't! If you want it, go for it. It isn't hard to find a man who needs a woman in his life - You see them every day on the streets in the shops, at the car wash etc. It really is far easier for you women to pick up a FBuddy than it is for us men! Surely we must have a member on this forum in your area? (Infact tell us what area you are in, maybe someone here will give it to you!)

 

Go out to a respectable bar or club you'll be having sex within hours. Alternatively check out the local paper for the 'good times'. Got any male neighbours?

 

Lets face it, at the end of the day us men love sex. Few men will reject a woman who says "Hey, fancy having sex?". You might not feel brilliant about being so inviting but you'll get SEX!!!

 

Of course theres always the other option... Get a vibrator and let it set to work on you for a few hours...