Funstuff Posted August 3, 2008 Share Posted August 3, 2008 Ok, Iv been with this girl for over a year, she is my first "real" relationship and my first love(Im 18 and so is she), about 8 months ago i had way to much to drink and kissed a girl, so naturally im scared of drinking (The mixutre of my meds + drinking ruins my self control anyways not about this) Iv always sorta been a jelous freak. I hate it, I dont want to be but iv been diogonosed with ocd and that doesnt help. i want my girlfriend to go out and have fun without me. recently she went to a work party and drank and danced (i wasnt there) and all was well. I was worried but i got over it, tonight shes going downtown to bars (Drinking age is 19 here in canada so shes almost legal but anyways), Shes going to bars and like should i be worried? Shes with her cousin which is pretty much her best friend, and shes with a few other best friends. She wanted a girl night so i left it alone and said have fun, but inside im still uneasy. She said she wants to dance with other guys, and like she told me she'd never dance sexual like me and her dance, but just the thought makes me sick to the stomach. Am i just being ridicoulous? I dont tell her to stop, i used to but it made her think i dont trust her which i do fully, so i just shut up and keep it in. I want her to have fun, but should i be worried about her going downtown to bars? and dancing with other guys?. Link to comment
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