DjSystemz Posted August 3, 2008 Share Posted August 3, 2008 Well I have no clue why this is bothering me but it seems to me like I am the one showing more love than my gf of 4 months. I'm the one that always has to say "i love you" or "i miss you" first. Of course she says it back but it just doesnt seem like we are on an equal level. Like I wish she would say "i love you" first or "i miss you!" It just doesn't happen. Am I being an idiot or too paranoid? Link to comment
Loki71 Posted August 3, 2008 Share Posted August 3, 2008 Am I being an idiot or too paranoid? Could be either one. Before you jump to one of them try not saying it for awhile and see what happens. I also highly recommend talking to her about it. If you don't talk to her things will only get worse. Trust me I have been there and it doesn't turn out good. Link to comment
DN Posted August 3, 2008 Share Posted August 3, 2008 Try not saying it for a few days first and see if she notices and says something. If she asks why you haven't then you can say that you have noticed you are always the one saying it first and it makes you wonder about how she really feels about you. Link to comment
DjSystemz Posted August 4, 2008 Author Share Posted August 4, 2008 so the whole day yesterday we spoke on the phone about 4 times. Usually when I say bye to her i say i love you. But I didnt do it the whole day and just said bye. then she asked that night if there was something wrong. i was like no. why would there be something wrong? then she just dropped it. i get a call at 2 and 5 am this morning from her asking how i was doing. on the 5 am call she said by and she said i love you and she told me she would call me this morning which should be soon. she sleeps in a lot Link to comment
Loki71 Posted August 4, 2008 Share Posted August 4, 2008 so the whole day yesterday we spoke on the phone about 4 times. Usually when I say bye to her i say i love you. But I didnt do it the whole day and just said bye. then she asked that night if there was something wrong. i was like no. why would there be something wrong? then she just dropped it. i get a call at 2 and 5 am this morning from her asking how i was doing. on the 5 am call she said by and she said i love you and she told me she would call me this morning which should be soon. she sleeps in a lot Grats... Just keep that going for awhile and things should work out great. Now I am sure you can breath a little easier. Link to comment
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