Mustang Posted August 3, 2008 Share Posted August 3, 2008 Does anybody else agree that it's VERY hard to get the balance right? I was super nice to my ex and in the end I became a bit of a bore I guess you could say. I was no longer a challenge. I realise that I need to be more of a man about things and not let a girl rule my life and I have since started to view myself as number one. The thing is, since taking up this idea I've noticed a change in me and the way in which girls talk with me. In the last few months I've been going out, getting numbers and flirting with a lot of girls left, right and centre. It's been fun and it's been great after all the pain I went through with my ex. However, recently, I met up with a girl and she kept making little remarks about how I'm a "player", a "smooth talker", a "womaniser" and that I have "a game plan". I don't want to be walked over by being super nice but then again, it seems things are going the other way now and I appear to be a sleazy guy who only wants sex! It's so annoying. It seems I can't win! I can flirt quite comfortably and I get on really well with girls but when I turn nice on them they get bored and if I keep the flirting going and ask them out, they get put off because they think I'm just using them. Anybody else have this trouble? PS - What on earth do you get for a girl for her birthday who you've known for a few months but have only been out on one official "date"? Link to comment
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