LAYAAN Posted August 3, 2008 Share Posted August 3, 2008 Hello all, I've posted about this man on this forum before. This is the man who asked me out on a coffee date. We met on a dating site. Didn't offer me anything. Said twice during the date "if nothing else, we can atleast become friends, go to movies, hang out, stuff like that." He walked me to the car and asked for a hug. I didn't hug as I thought that was the end of it (since he mentioned being friends). He contacted me on the dating site 3 days after our so called 1st date, he wrote "we can hang out as friends, this is my email ID. this match will be closed soon so stay in touch." I wrote to his email ID saying "okay, you've made it clear that you want to be just friends but i've a busy schedule so good luck" he wrote "I enjoyed our conversation, atleast drop a line, or call sometime just to say hi" I wrote back "fine, emailing works for me" I thought the match would be closed. Its been a month now he still hasn't closed the match. What do I understand from this? I feel bad 1) that the guy didn't offer me coffee when actually he asked me out (is it b'coz he was trying to say that there is no dating hence forth or just that he is a jerk?) 2)he asked to be friends. I've no intention of being friends with him. Its been a month since our meeting. There has been no contact from his/my side so far. What should I do? Should I close the match or leave it open? I mean, leaving it open is like draggin it. IMO, if he were really interested, he should have emailed again, asked out again, something. He doesn't have my phone no. When he asked, I said, "I prefer to wait a few more dates." but he could atleast email. I'm thinking of closing the match. what should I do? I like the guy but I'm confused about what he feels (or doesn't feel). Sorry for the long post but I need some help. Thank you for your input. Link to comment
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