xxmacbethxx Posted August 2, 2008 Share Posted August 2, 2008 this is what i got me and my gf well ex gf now have been dating for about 1 year 8 months and well she started hanging around this guy alot and i knew he liked her i warned her about him and stuff, i was not to concerned because i trust her. well eventually the guy kisses her she says she pulled away i believe her she has never lied before, but she says she think she might have started to have feelings for him, but she would never consider to date him ( hes kinda a sleezbag all her girl friends even agree with that) so im not to worried about that i forgave her and told her i love her and all that fun. i did not dump her but she says she doesn't know what to do, we are going through hard times right now moving to colleges and stuff, going to meet new people but we will actually life closer to each other when we do move then we are now. she says she needs room to figure things out, and that she isn't sure she wants to be in a relationship and she doesnt want the extra stress right now, there is alot of things going on in both are lifes causing stress, i always wanted are relationship to be stress free and it seemed it was because though we loved each other so much we always kept it simple not talking about were we saw are selfs together and stuff, back to the point. I don't think she forgives herself for what happened and maybe even she is afraid that things might happen again, i really trust that it wouldn't she is a smart girl and learns fast i think she is hurting from it more then me. She also says that she isnt sure what she wants, this whole situation is scrambling things up. well she did dump me but we are still friends we have been broken up for 12 days, but we are still close and every thing still talk a lot but this is really taking its toll on me i honestly think that she is my special some one( i know we havnt been together long but i have always been told you just know) and i cant imagine rest my life with out her. she tells me she loves me she still tells me she miss's me but all this has cut back a lot i have been thinking about this no contact thing i even sayed i was going to do it once but it seemed wrong, part of me wants to and part of me wants to help her because i know she is upset to. I know that all her friends say she has never been happier then when she is with me, and i feel the same way i know that i could never make any one happier or have any one make me feel the way she makes me feel. in all honestly sometimes when i hold her the world becomes a blur and all i can feel is our hearts beating. so any advice is welcomed i want her back so bad, im thinking about trying no contact it just so hard and i love her so much, i have been in longer relationships and dint love them this much, PLZZZZ HELP Link to comment
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