thefustrateddude Posted August 1, 2008 Share Posted August 1, 2008 Whats your idea of a perfect relationship? I am a drama free guy, and drama-full-girls do not go well here... but can a drama free relationship become dull and boring. Anyone want to share a long term serious relationship that is drama free, happy, and one that you could call perfect? Just realized that I didn't know anyone with such a relationship, maybe someone out there does, if so please describe it, and what you feel about it? Link to comment
morgane Posted August 1, 2008 Share Posted August 1, 2008 Whats your idea of a perfect relationship? I am a drama free guy, and drama-full-girls do not go well here... but can a drama free relationship become dull and boring. Anyone want to share a long term serious relationship that is drama free, happy, and one that you could call perfect? Just realized that I didn't know anyone with such a relationship, maybe someone out there does, if so please describe it, and what you feel about it? absolutely not, i am in a relationship with a man named "my fashion design career" we have been together for 18 years now and let me tell ya, we never fight and we love each other more than ever! Link to comment
JadedStar Posted August 1, 2008 Share Posted August 1, 2008 Drama free doesn't have to be boring. Drama free just means (to me anyway) not flying off the handle over stupid crap and disagreeing respectfully. You can have a lot of thrills and adventure without drama. Link to comment
JadedStar Posted August 1, 2008 Share Posted August 1, 2008 absolutely not, i am in a relationship with a man named "my fashion design career" we have been together for 18 years now and let me tell ya, we never fight and we love each other more than ever! Good luck getting it to rub your feet when you are tired or looking at you with adoring eyes! Out of curiosity, how come you came to a 'relationship forum' if you are so anti relationship? Just curious how you found us or why if you really have no need or desire for a relationship??? Link to comment
Jetta Posted August 1, 2008 Share Posted August 1, 2008 People attract drama who subconsciously enjoy it because drama free people do exist. Link to comment
morgane Posted August 1, 2008 Share Posted August 1, 2008 Good luck getting it to rub your feet when you are tired or looking at you with adoring eyes! Out of curiosity, how come you came to a 'relationship forum' if you are so anti relationship? Just curious how you found us or why if you really have no need or desire for a relationship??? hahahaha awww, well i dont, i go to "new posts" hahaha yeah but about the relationship drama free, i don't think drama free means boring. Call me old fashioned but a bump in the road is NEVER good. Link to comment
Clementine orange Posted August 2, 2008 Share Posted August 2, 2008 I've yet to meet a woman who wasn't chock full 'o drama. Some more than others, but they've all do it. Maybe it's me. Link to comment
Rising Posted August 2, 2008 Share Posted August 2, 2008 Drama-free is like fat-free. Maybe better for you but doesn't taste near as good. I'm not saying all forms of drama mind you, but part of letting your heart go with another person allows them to be able to hurt you if they should choose to, or if they are too neglectful. Being hurt leads to drama of some sort or another. Relationships that are mature can have significantly less drama and still have all of the heart and soul necessary to be exciting and fulfilling. It's tough finding that perfect combination of chemistry and logistics... but it's possible. I feel like you have to go through some dramatic relationships to get to a place where you can have a less drama-ridden one later. I think the best relationships are the ones where both members can recognize when things are getting a little dramatic (or very dramatic) and diffuse the situation by talking about it, laughing about it, or simply saying "Whoa... this is some ridiculous drama... let's drop it" *cross fingers* Let's hope for the best in all of our future relationships. Link to comment
legallady1 Posted August 2, 2008 Share Posted August 2, 2008 absolutely not, i am in a relationship with a man named "my fashion design career" we have been together for 18 years now and let me tell ya, we never fight and we love each other more than ever! HAHAHAHAHA seriously!!!! Link to comment
Crush85 Posted August 2, 2008 Share Posted August 2, 2008 Whats your idea of a perfect relationship? My idea of a perfect relationship is one with as little drama as possible. I'd be with a girl who was honest, loving, funny, brave, down-to-earth, smart, and someone who I would, obviously, be physically attracted to. We would have similar interests. The sex would be great (she would want it as much me and truly enjoy it). In a perfect world, I wouldn't have a jealous dad and a judgmental mom complicating things. Our families would get along great; no tension. The relationship would stand the test of time and still be exciting 10 or 20 years down the road. Link to comment
StrawberryYogurt Posted August 2, 2008 Share Posted August 2, 2008 I'm in a drama free relationship and I know quite a few other such relationships, too. We argue every once in a while about small things, but other than that, it's all good in the hood. Link to comment
JadedStar Posted August 4, 2008 Share Posted August 4, 2008 I think you nailed it, what i bolded above. Mature relationships are much less dramatic and still can be extremely exciting and fulfilling. And this doens't always carry an age tag on it either, it depends on the people involved. Young or old who have mature relationships usually have those with less nonsense and drama. Link to comment
melrich Posted August 4, 2008 Share Posted August 4, 2008 I am a drama free guy, and drama-full-girls do not go well here My wife is a bit of a drama queen...and I am so not...and it works pretty well cos we sort of balance each other out. Link to comment
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