i cant work out what he thinks - complex

[prettyhate]

ok so i dont know where else to ask this but i have been single for nearly 3 months now and im working really hard

but i reconnected with this guy now we went to the movies the other night he came early and asked to go for a drink wasnt expecting that it was weird i cant guage if he is attracted to me or not

we have done the deed twice 4 years ago and it was awkward and bad and then he went away and i said oh thanks for letting me know and he was like we are not close anyway and it was really rude...

anyway so years pass i had a boyf for 2.5 years we sorta had the odd msg on the net going back and forth

and i really enjoy talking to him but i was so awkwardly nervous argh I HATE IT so at the end of the night i sent a message as he had to run to get the last transport link as the movie finished nearly at midnight!

i sent a text saying hope you got home ok thanks for coming he wrote back

no worries all good i got the last ferry keep in touch

 

not really sure how to handle it now i wish ic ould be honest and say I LIKE U AND LIKE TALKING TO U but its a bit awkward with out past

[ghost69]

why awkward with the past? let the past go unless he treated you wrong. go with the flow and relax. don't be too eager.

 

oh, and try using punctuation when you post. you might get more responses.

[Loriana]

Well maybe he just wants to start out as friends first as you guys had a past. Like get to know you again so i wouldn't rush into thinking oh he doesn't like me or anything. I would just chill out and be yourself. And if you really wanna tell him that you like him send him a text after your night out and be like oh i really enjoyed tonight, i have alot of fun with you speak soon xox. so that way your kind of telling him how you feel but being friendly at thee same time. Good luck x

[littlestar]

from what u wrote, it only sounds like there was a sexual past, so dont let that get in the way of your feelings now.