ljoy74 Posted August 1, 2008 Share Posted August 1, 2008 I am yet to find help with this. My boyfriend of 4 years and I broke up about a month ago. We broke up because he got tired of not seeing each other and felt that he had to be without me to make the pain of not seeing me go away. (Hope that makes sense to someone out there) He told me falling out of love with me would be the only way he could heal his broken heart. He said from the beginning, even before the beginning that he had to remain friends with me if we broke up. He told me that I was to amazing and wonderful of a person for him to ever be without. I let him go about the belief that we'd stay friends for a while until about 2 months ago when the break-up talks rolled around. I could not let him think that I could be his friend after he broke my heart. He cried so hard when I told him that. In 4 years I had seen him cry twice, but never like he cried when I told him that. We talked again a week or two later and my heart had changed. No matter what happened I wanted him in my life and I knew that. Now that we've been broken up I'm at a block in the road. He has a new girlfriend, and did 2 weeks after we broke up. I feel bad for him that he had to put someone immediately into the spot I once filled, but you can come to your own conclusions. I went semi-NC on him. I let him do all the contacting and he did. He texts, he messages online, he calls. The only thing he never mentions is his new girlfriend. We haven't seen each other since we broke up but the day we did he cried and told me how glad he was things didn't end on bad terms. In conclusion.... I'm sort of lost as to how he has a new girlfriend but keeps me in his life. Come to any conclusion you'd like and please share it with me! Sincerely, Lost her (L)joy. Link to comment
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