psychstudent Posted July 31, 2008 Share Posted July 31, 2008 I just graduated with my degree in psychology and yet I can not come up with a solution to my own problem. I started dating this guy when I was in the 10th grade, we dated for 4 years and 4 months. We lost our virginity to one another. We were the ideal couple, both faithful. We broke up last summer(of 07) ultimately because of issues with his mother. While were separated we went our own ways. He was taking summer classes in a town about 3 hours away and I was in our hometown. I started partying, which is something I had never done before! I didn't get serious with anyone and didn't have sex with anyone. I guess my out was drinking. He on the other hand jumped into a 'relationship,' they didn't date, but they did have sex. He knew the girl about 3 weeks, had sex with her 5 times, and then it was over. I think what happened is she wanted to date him and he told her no because she wasn't his type. Both of us were not ourselves at all. So, in October we started talking again, and in March we started dating again. My problem: I can't get that girl out of my head. I know he doesn't love her, I know that he wants to be with me, but she will not go away. We will be having sex and all of a sudden this girl pops into my head....Why can't I forget about her? What can I do to make her go away? Link to comment
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