elizmdavis Posted July 31, 2008 Share Posted July 31, 2008 I've been with my bf for 3 years. We are making plans for the future, but no engagement yet. So far we are planning things like this: he graduates, we get married, he goes to med school, I do my thing as I help him through it. I'm personally trying to find my own balance before comnmiting to this, it's been a struggle. However, my reason for posting here is that everytime we have an argument, he says "is this how it's going to be when I am in med school?" "if this is how it's gonna be then I don't know how we'll make it!". He ALWAYS jumps to these conclusions when we argue. Its a big contradiction because whenever I am having reservations about our plans, he says "have faith in me", but then he turns around and makes me doubt that conviction. It's almost his self-fulfilling prophecy when he says these things. Why does he do this? It really hurts. Link to comment
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