Seabreeze Posted July 31, 2008 Share Posted July 31, 2008 I hate when all these old sayings start to make sense such as: "What ever goes around comes around" or " You dont know what you have until its gone" So here is my story: I have been in a relationship with my girl since 2003 (end of high school, she did not go to my hs btw we sorta met through friends). Everything is always great in the beginning, but after about 2 years we started having some problems pretty much we did the ol break up for 2 weeks and get back together thing so many times I lost count.. well we made it all the way to 2007-2008 and thats when my g/f continued to nag me about "where this relationship is going" "do you see a future for us" "do you see yourself marrying me"....well at that time my type of answer was either I cannot answer that right now or lets just live in the present for now. This is around the time where we would get into fights for no reason and just get annoyed/ frustrated with each other until one little argument about nothing turned into us splitting up for 3 months...and now we are in the present. Present situation; So we parted ways for 3 months I started dating a few girls 3 to be exact, but no one I was really interested in. She started dating some guy from out of state that she would mainly talk to on the phone/online I think she may have visited him twice. Anyways I realize after dating a few people that I actually missed her a lot and wanted her back in my life especially after I found out she was dating someone else. I asked her out to lunch one day to talk she hesitated at first, but agreed. I told her I realized how much I loved her and was willing to commit a little more to the future.. ha what happened next I did not see coming. She pretty much looked spooked/surprised and tried to get away as fast as she could. She said she was completely over me and we should both move on, but I could tell by her face she was telling the half truth. Well after that lunch she didnt want to talk to me, but I am a very persistent person so she eventually gave in.. we talked took a walk in the park and kissed and she said she would think about us getting back together after her vacation (she is leaving in 2 days for 1 week). So I have been textin her regularly throughout the day, but she seems to ignore all my text so I called her a few times until she decided to pick up. I asked her why she was ignorin my text and then I said what ever Ill give you your space until you get back from your vacation then we can talk about us... ha then she says about us? I dont know if thats a good idea and then says " I gotta go". Yeaa so pretty much we have swapped places. I am the one now that "wants the relationship to work" more than her and I am willing to commit more than before and I have no idea what she wants. She seems to have mixed feelings as I did before. So it seems like to me she still loves me, but wants to move on and "figure out who she is and what she wants". I guess it has changed since we broke up. Now I dont exaclty want to move on, but this "if you love something let it go, and if it comes back to you...." sounds like its gonna take some time...so the question is do i wait and put my life on hold which might all be for nothing or should I just try to move on which I don’t want to do either. BTW for age reference I am 23 she is 24 Link to comment
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