arietta23 Posted July 31, 2008 Share Posted July 31, 2008 I have posted several times here. But basically my ex and i broke up in Feb. after 4 months of dating. We attempted to be "friends" but it was friends with all the benefits. 2 weeks after we broke up he was asking this girl out and would text and call her while he was with me. I found out and kind of lost it, crying, pleading...all the bad things. He basically wouldn't return any of my calls and after that I went into NC. It has now been 4 months of NC. I think of him everyday. Some days hurts more than others. I have tried dating. Exercising. Reading. Going out with friends. All seem to be bandaids to the soul. We have mutual friends and I was told a few weeks ago, that he has alot of free time because my replacement, according to my ex was "high maintenance". I texted my ex last week, " how's everything?" but he never responded. When i think about the relationship, I know it was missing alot of important things that I thought I could live with, but with the added knowledge that he was never really into me and was able to throw me away without any problem, I think i deserve better. At least my head says that. My heart is saying other things. But the meaning of me writing and asking for help, is that I really miss my ex. I miss the friendship. I miss the hanging out. And confiding in each other. I just miss him. I want the friendship part back. I know that this has a whole can a worms to it(like the current gf) but can it hurt more than i have been feeling for months now? Would it be wrong to have LC with the ex? And how do I get him to respond to me? I think the reason he didn't is he thinks I want the relationship back and why would he want that while he is in another? Do I have to wait until it ends with her? Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Link to comment
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