Steven1607307306 Posted July 30, 2008 Share Posted July 30, 2008 So here's the story: I've been with my girlfriend for about two years now. The first few months went great there weren't many problems (as with most relationships in the beginning), but as time went on she would seem to get more and more agitated with the smallest things. She would start to freak out about little things, and once she snapped there was no calming her down. About 8 months into our relationship I gave her an ultimatum, saying if she doesn't start showing self control, then we're done. She cried and told me she hasn't been taking her medication and that she will try to get back on it and work things out. So we tried that and she started acting cool with everyhting again for a while. Then she started changing back into the crazy chick... She told me she was just stressed out because she was tired of living in VA (we were planning on moving to NM) and she would be okay once we moved. So we started saving money, she moved into my apartment and all of the sudden she got this new job which paid her a tremendous amount of money. She told me she was a financial advisor for some company. About a month and a half after that job, she finally told me she was prostituting herself in D.C. As most would imagine, I got quite angry with her and kicked her out. I loved her so much though I found it in my heart to forgive her because I knew she would never do anything like that again. So months went on and drama kept coming back, but I thought she just needed to get out of the big city. So we finally moved about a month ago, and for the first 4 weeks she has been the coolest ever. THEN just yesterday she was sick so we decided to take the bus to the doctor. We needed money so we went to walgreens to get some change for the bus. She tried to cut in front of some old lady in line, and I told her she needs to get in line, and her time was no more important that anybody else's. She freaked out on me making a scene and telling me to go home she could do it by herself. so I waited outside walgreens and when she came out I told her that I should go with her in case they give her a shot that will make her really drowsy. She continued to tell me to leave, so I left. I went back to my house and about 10-15 minutes later she comes in the house screaming and crying and hitting me calling me names and all that crap. Now I normally wouln't get too angry this is just her old self, but what made it different was that my 9 and 12 year old brothers were witnessing this. She told me she's moving back and this and that, and I told her good then get a ticket. later that night she started to cry asking why I didn't care if she left. I told her it was her idea and now that she brought it to my attention, it would probably be best. After a night of sleep I now walk the fence-line. Can someone give me a push to either side? p.s. Sorry so long... Link to comment
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