Hopeful99 Posted July 29, 2008 Share Posted July 29, 2008 If you need very specific details on my past relationship you can read past past threads below. I just want to know if sending this would do any good. Basically I have exhausted all hope, she was very loving for a while then put me on an emotional rollercoaster for 6 months before breaking up. One week was madly in love, the next needed space, etc. Finally ended by telling me she wanted to marry me – dumped me two days later – and progressively distanced to the point now where she will look the other way every time she sees me at work – like we are complete strangers. I am still bothered by how this all went down and read in a book “ How to get Ex back”…that I could send her a letter and agree – as well as making some open ended comments about improving. Might catch her off target – she did mention in one of the posts below it was good we were not dating because we were both too busy…so I think I am on her miond sometimes. And honestly, I am a much better person than I was a year ago – just much more whole, understood where I needed to improve, etc. Not really in terms of how I treat others but in regards to self improving me. BTW - I am less interested in getting her back at the moment than trying to get her guard down and rekindle a friendship. So I was thinking about sending her this: Hi XXXXX Hope you don’t feel offended getting this but I just wanted to tell you something. I owe you a big “Thanks” for doing what you did with us. This time has allowed me to focus on some things and really become a much better person than I was before for me and the people in my life. I have grown a lot and had some really positive things happen as a result. I am sure things are going well for you to, which is all I ever wanted. Maybe we can even be friends again some day. Take care XXXXX Link to comment
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