SeaBisquit Posted July 29, 2008 Share Posted July 29, 2008 i'm so freaked out and this is really bad. my boyfriend came to get me the other nite to spend the nite at his place. i had took a set of nighties with me to wear to go to bed. i got over at his place and we were sitting down talking and he got a phone call. it was a guy that lives accross the street from him. after the phone call he told me to go and put my pajamas on. i said no because that guy was coming over. he said no he not coming over look i'll go lock the door. i went in the bedroom to put on my pajamas, i heard a knock on the door and put my clothes back on. when i opened the bedroom door the guy was standing there right at the door. he said that i opened the door. i don't know what that was all about but it creeps me out. Link to comment
ImThatGirl Posted July 29, 2008 Share Posted July 29, 2008 And how long has this guy been your boyfriend? Link to comment
SeaBisquit Posted July 29, 2008 Author Share Posted July 29, 2008 it sounds like he intended for that guy to see you in his bedroom. Link to comment
Samedy Posted July 29, 2008 Share Posted July 29, 2008 it sounds like he intended for that guy to see you in his bedroom. It really does. Which should send up a couple of dozen Red Flags, and maybe even a black one. What did your b/f say to this? Link to comment
BeStrongBeHappy Posted July 29, 2008 Share Posted July 29, 2008 Well, he either wanted the neighbor to see you in your nightie, or he was planning a threesome. Either way, it would bug me too? How well do you know your boyfriend? Wanting to 'display' you for his neighbors is darn weird. Link to comment
SeaBisquit Posted July 29, 2008 Author Share Posted July 29, 2008 when i got out of the bedroom. he was siiting in the kitchen on a tool. he acted like nothing was even going on. he introduced me to the guy and we all went out to get something to eat. Link to comment
DN Posted July 29, 2008 Share Posted July 29, 2008 Did you ask him afterwards what he was playiing at? Link to comment
Samedy Posted July 29, 2008 Share Posted July 29, 2008 From the way you describe it, it sounds like a set-up from one of those cheap Internet porno's... How long have you been with this bloke? Link to comment
drewciouS281 Posted July 29, 2008 Share Posted July 29, 2008 he may not be that into you and was just showing off what he is hittin or he may be bi and wanted a 3 way. that sounds creepy to me. tell me you questioned things cause that would piss me off! Link to comment
Samedy Posted July 29, 2008 Share Posted July 29, 2008 I'm just going to add. This behaviour doesn't neccessarily mean he wanted his friend to "do" anything to you. He could have been just "showing you off", which doesn't make it right. But it does bring into mind some other cautions you should have. - Be aware of any web-cams in the house, esp in the bedroom, where they're pointed. - Delete/Destroy any "private" pictures you may have taken for your boyfriend. -Never take any "private" picture for this b/f. *I don't mean to create paranoia for you, I am basing my reply on your description of events. Anything that may have been left out would effect my response and general feel to the event in question. Link to comment
HeartGoesOn Posted July 29, 2008 Share Posted July 29, 2008 My first question would be, why did he lie to you and say, "No, he's not coming over, I'll go lock the door." Link to comment
IMAbadman Posted July 29, 2008 Share Posted July 29, 2008 Who knows maybe the neighbor guy just came over anyway, on his own accord... I mean the BF said he wasn't coming over but he show up anyway. Now if he was carrying video cameras, lights, and a giant purple dildo named barney I'd be concerned about the internet porn gig. So what did this BF have to say for himself? Link to comment
Samedy Posted July 29, 2008 Share Posted July 29, 2008 Who knows maybe the neighbor guy just came over anyway, on his own accord... I mean the BF said he wasn't coming over but he show up anyway. Now if he was carrying video cameras, lights, and a giant purple dildo named barney I'd be concerned about the internet porn gig. So what did this BF have to say for himself? But then if he let him in, why would he allow him to go to the bedroom door? To the boyfriends knowledge she was in her nighty, with the assumption it was only the two of them in the house. Her boyfriend could just be incredibly dumb. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted July 29, 2008 Share Posted July 29, 2008 put on your pjs, bob is coming over. weird. Link to comment
justbrowsing Posted July 29, 2008 Share Posted July 29, 2008 when i got out of the bedroom. he was siiting in the kitchen on a tool. he acted like nothing was even going on. he introduced me to the guy and we all went out to get something to eat. Okay...your BF sounds like a creep. He has you change, then acts like nothing and goes out to eat? You didn't sleep w/him that night, did you? ick Link to comment
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