IMAbadman Posted July 29, 2008 Share Posted July 29, 2008 OK so the EX and I broke up about 3 months back. Two weeks after the break-up I took hers and her kid’s things, well most of them, to her apartment. She wasn’t home so I left a quick note basically stating that I thought I should return these items. Here’s the full story if you’re interested: Flash forward to present. We met 3 weeks ago to talk at a local park, I was feeling her out with where she was at emotionally. Yeah, hoping there would be a chance for reconciliation. Let’s just say that won’t be happening anytime soon. Although I could tell she was emotional and she said she thinks of me constantly she also stated that there is nothing I could say or do to change her mind. Anyway I tell her she knows how I feel and that I will continue to respect her decision and will not contact here again. I had only contacted her once in the 3 months and that was for the park meeting. I also mentioned that I had found more of her things around my house; pants, panties, socks, her tread mill, other odds and ends. She says she’ll call me and pick them up. I'm thinking she'll be around within a week. Now it's going on 3 weeks... the tread mill has been at my home for over 3 years!?! You'd think she'd want her stuff and bail out right? So here’s the deal… why does an EX leave their stuff at your place especially if they want nothing else to do with you? I mean come and get it and get out of my life right? I’m not trying to over analyze this but what experiences have other dumpees and dumpers had? Link to comment
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