dee7 Posted July 29, 2008 Share Posted July 29, 2008 Ok so I just discovered this site and thought it cant hurt to get some opinions, advice, etc on my situation. I'll try to keep it brief!! Ok, so I've just recently, no other words to describe it, but fallen in love with this guy. We met online, not through a dating site, but kind of randomly through a forum website. We kinda had a connection from the get go, started chatting on MSN for ages, hours on end. Eventually exchanged phone numbers and continued talking as though we've known each other for years. We've both admitted that this is a first for both of us (the online thing), that we werent really looking for anything but it just happened. Anyways we're both old enough (hes 21 and Im 24) to realise that the way we feel is pretty real. We've admitted we love each other and just the other night he called me his "best friend". Anyways, at the moment he's in another state from me for 6 months working. However he has mentioned that he is considering moving to my state after that 6 months to try and make us work. Do you think it is too soon to be talking about that? We've only been chatting for 3 months or so and although we're very close we have still yet to meet. Although obviously he does plan on coming down before that 6 months is up to meet me and spend time with me. I guess I'm just looking for any advice, people's expierences?? PS. Ive actually read through some of the forums on here and am now really nervous about meeting him! Apparently its normal to NOT find the same connection in real life?? How is that possible.. I mean I think we're pretty realistic in our day to day conversations ........ ahhhhhhhhh!!! Really confused now! Link to comment
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