ghost69 Posted July 28, 2008 Share Posted July 28, 2008 the girl i'm seeing is now using the first letter of my name in texts. usually at the end of each text. she didn't do this in the beginning. it's becoming more constant. i'm getting the impression she wants to say 'babe' or 'baby' in them now. i'm pretty good on reading signals and don't need advice. i'm not really concerned if she is wanting to say that. just want some random insight. what do you guys think? Link to comment
HealingHandsWarmHeart Posted July 28, 2008 Share Posted July 28, 2008 maybe she doesn't feel like texting your entire name.... Link to comment
barbielovesmac Posted July 28, 2008 Share Posted July 28, 2008 "hey k. what ya doing?" yeah that'd be a little weird. but i can't really say what it is she is trying to do, lol. sorry g. Link to comment
Godwin Posted July 28, 2008 Share Posted July 28, 2008 Why the hell does it matter what she calls you? Link to comment
amtjrtcet Posted July 28, 2008 Share Posted July 28, 2008 I do that, I was seeing this guy whos name started with a J, I called him J. My ex's name started with B, I called him B. I think its just a playful, shorter way of addressing you. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted July 28, 2008 Author Share Posted July 28, 2008 it's mostly at the end. not 'hey g...' it's more like 'you too g' 'right back at you g'. i understand not wanting to type my name out. that's okay. but i know when i'm into a girl i say her name to her more often. i'm getting that impression from her. i'm just trying to generate random ideas. i'm into this girl so it doesn't really matter. unless it's cause she wants to kill me. that i have a problem with. Link to comment
metrogirl Posted July 28, 2008 Share Posted July 28, 2008 Have you texted babe or baby to her? Does she say it in convos; ......hey babe, blah blah Link to comment
jengh Posted July 28, 2008 Share Posted July 28, 2008 yeah, i do that too. if there's a way of shortening my texts, ill do it Link to comment
ghost69 Posted July 28, 2008 Author Share Posted July 28, 2008 Why the hell does it matter what she calls you? pay attention. it doesn't matter as i stated. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted July 28, 2008 Author Share Posted July 28, 2008 Have you texted babe or baby to her? Does she say it in convos; ......hey babe, blah blah no. we have never exchanged those words yet. Link to comment
amtjrtcet Posted July 28, 2008 Share Posted July 28, 2008 I think using someone's name often makes it more personal-in relationships and professionally. Link to comment
amtjrtcet Posted July 28, 2008 Share Posted July 28, 2008 no. we have never exchanged those words yet. Well, are you ready for that step?....lol Link to comment
ghost69 Posted July 28, 2008 Author Share Posted July 28, 2008 I think using someone's name often makes it more personal-in relationships and professionally. yeah i know. sometimes i like using my name incognito like to get it in their head. hehe. it's pretty slick how i do that. Well, are you ready for that step?....lol mmmmmm, i don't think so. Link to comment
HealingHandsWarmHeart Posted July 28, 2008 Share Posted July 28, 2008 mr. ghost- i think what you have here is a classic case of "reading too much into it" lol Link to comment
bijoux27 Posted July 28, 2008 Share Posted July 28, 2008 Yep it sounds like she's getting more comfortable with you, using the nicknames. Link to comment
barbielovesmac Posted July 28, 2008 Share Posted July 28, 2008 well, what i am saying is i think it would be weird for a guy im talking to or only dating addressed me as "K" at the end of text messages. me, personally would be like huh? what's k. why you calling me k? then i'd get my answer. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted July 28, 2008 Author Share Posted July 28, 2008 mr. ghost- i think what you have here is a classic case of "reading too much into it" lol lol HH. like i said it doesn't bother me. i'm not reading into it. least i don't think i am as i'm not really looking for answers to it. just trying to generate ideas if she wants to use the other words now. i could care less if she is doing it on purpose or not. i like it to be honest. but i agree with the comfortable thing. Yep it sounds like she's getting more comfortable with you, using the nicknames. that's what i'm thinkin. i'm okay with that. Link to comment
JadedStar Posted July 28, 2008 Share Posted July 28, 2008 Hmm, so are you saying that because she uses your initial at end of texts that wanting to call you "baby" or "babe" is next? I'm not getting that logic ghost. I do this all the time with even friends (the initial). I would say if she wanted to call you babe, wouldn't she just do so without leading up to it like this? Link to comment
HealingHandsWarmHeart Posted July 28, 2008 Share Posted July 28, 2008 Hmm, so are you saying that because she uses your initial at end of texts that wanting to call you "baby" or "babe" is next? I'm not getting that logic ghost. I do this all the time with even friends (the initial). I would say if she wanted to call you babe, wouldn't she just do so without leading up to it like this? Or she would just say "b" lol i dont know ..id get rid of her..she sounds lazy.. hehe j/k Link to comment
metrogirl Posted July 28, 2008 Share Posted July 28, 2008 I'm thinking Ghost would have a grin ear to ear if he knew for sure that is what she is doing.... Link to comment
amipushy Posted July 28, 2008 Share Posted July 28, 2008 She doesnt know you well enough to call you babe so she's using it to be little more personal. Damn annoying though, I'd hate it g I really would. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted July 28, 2008 Author Share Posted July 28, 2008 Hmm, so are you saying that because she uses your initial at end of texts that wanting to call you "baby" or "babe" is next? I'm not getting that logic ghost. I do this all the time with even friends (the initial). I would say if she wanted to call you babe, wouldn't she just do so without leading up to it like this? she doesn't have much experience with having a bf. i'm just wondering if anybody has 'masked' their words with something simple like a 'g' instead of going for this gusto of 'babe'. i'm not reading into it as i don't care. but i do like the way this thread turned out. lots of great ideas. that's all i was looking for. i just think she is being cute and likes my name. like i said, no biggie. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted July 28, 2008 Author Share Posted July 28, 2008 She doesnt know you well enough to call you babe so she's using it to be little more personal. Damn annoying though, I'd hate it g I really would. this is kind of where i was going with this. i think it's context though too. these texts are sweet. i remember an ex that used to say 'g' but she would say it all long winded like it was my name. that really irritated me. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted July 28, 2008 Author Share Posted July 28, 2008 I'm thinking Ghost would have a grin ear to ear if he knew for sure that is what she is doing.... hehe. i already know what i'm doing with her. i mean, not doing to her. wait, what? everything we've done already...i mean...nm Link to comment
pinkelephant Posted July 28, 2008 Share Posted July 28, 2008 i do that. usually if i like the guy, i prefer to come up with my own version of his name. with my last bf, everyone called him TJ.. T stood for taylor so i started calling him that instead. The babe came soon after. Heh. Link to comment
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