acheheart Posted July 28, 2008 Share Posted July 28, 2008 Before we started dating, we were best friends. We told each other everything, we were like siblings. Then, we started dating, for 2 1/2 months and after it ended, we agreed to stay friends, but she seems like an entirely different person now. She seems so argumentative and stubborn. She almost tries to avoid discussing our relationship as if it was a bad omen or something. And after discussing this with her, I asked what was wrong and she says "well that's how i am now." She tells me it can't be perfectly the same and I understand that so I told her at least we can get close, or try to. All she says is "I don't know." What is with this unenthusiastic and pessimistic attitude all of a sudden =/ Before she has always been optimistic, willing to talk or work things out, now every time we try and talk it seems so unnatural and awkward. Was our past friendship fueled by love? Or... do people change that much after a relationship. Link to comment
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