AHHalex Posted July 28, 2008 Share Posted July 28, 2008 It seems like everytime I get close to someone, or interested in becoming closer friends with (or dating) a person they become obsessed. They want to spend all their time and want me to spend all my time with them. It has happened with quite a few friends, and I do not know what to do. It has also happened with all of my past boyfriends and again recently with two boys interested in dating me. I hang out with them, once or twice, or we go on one date, and all of a sudden they are telling me that they love me, that they have "never felt this way before," and all that junk. I am not sure what it is about me that attracts the obsessive personality, but I do not like it. It is a huge turn-off. I enjoy being spontaneous, and off-the-wall, I am not looking to be tied down to one person right now, if ever. So someone telling me that is a huge no-no. Any suggestions on how I can fix this? Does this happen to anyone else? Link to comment
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