EJGRMC112 Posted July 26, 2008 Share Posted July 26, 2008 Me and my bf are getting to the point in our relationship where the whole kiss and touch thing just isnt enough...we want sex. but im not sure what to o...and i dont want to be bad...soo any advice would be much appreciated..thank you Link to comment
auburnslp Posted July 26, 2008 Share Posted July 26, 2008 Welcome to this forum! It's a great one and you will get tons of great advice! OK, how old are you two and how long have you been dating? And what are your plans for birth control? Sorry to be so blunt but to me, as someone who has been there and done that, those are the important questions... Link to comment
auburnslp Posted July 26, 2008 Share Posted July 26, 2008 Yes, practice makes perfect. But what if the OP is 13? Sorry to give the old fart opinion here, but I believe that sex is inappropriate for children. It's a sad shame to me that the age trends for sex continue to spiral downward. Teenage pregnancies...uggh. Wrecks so much potential. For both parties involved. Not to mention the burdens on the families. Sorry, but that's why I asked the age in my previous post... Link to comment
blue-eyedspacemonkey Posted July 26, 2008 Share Posted July 26, 2008 Communicate. Talk openly before, during and after. That way you can tackle protection and what you do and don't like And make sure both of you are old enough and ready emotionally and physically for this as it is a big step in a relationship etc etc. Link to comment
ljoy74 Posted July 28, 2008 Share Posted July 28, 2008 This is a giant decision to make. Here's a list of things to go over and take them seriously. You don't realize how much sex effects you and your relationship/life until after you've already done it. -Your age and maturity, and his as well -The strength of your relationship without sexual stuff -Whether or not you REALLY love this person, this should be special -Any previous sexual partners and the possibility of STD's (family history to, you can get HIV from your own mother) -Birth control, condoms, etc. -A plan incase of pregnancy (fully thought out) -How this will effect you and him, your family and friends if they find out And as for being "bad." If this is the first time for both of you, you will learn what's "good" from each other and bad will define itself. But remember, chemistry between two people can't be bought. Link to comment
nicschic Posted July 28, 2008 Share Posted July 28, 2008 I've got to say it'll all come pretty naturally. How long have you two been dating? Your age? My first time wasn't til I was 17, I dated the guy for 2 years and knew I was completely ready. He lost his when he was 12 and deeply regrets it.. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted July 28, 2008 Share Posted July 28, 2008 don't worry so much. is it his first time too? Link to comment
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