DrPhil Posted July 25, 2008 Share Posted July 25, 2008 Just a little background info. Together for a year and a half. We split about 3 months ago. The usual 'fight too much' ... 'tired of this'. Been in NC pretty much the whole time.. I always planned to go NC but contact her sometime later down the road and I'm wondering if it's a good move right now. She just got into a relationship with a guy about.....10 days or so ago. I'm not so sure what to think of it. She rejected him before she met me..rejected him while we were together..now 3 months after breaking up, she's with him. Last I heard, they had some issues right after they hooked up. He's in the AF or army and left to where he was stationed at a day or two after hooking up. IDK if they're still together, but I will just assume that they are. And I understand that whether it's a serious relationship or not, it's still a relationship and I have to respect that. A couple days ago I shot her an IM, no response after 5 mins, so I just logged off. Thing about IM's is that she may or may not have been on the comp at the time, so I'm not reading into it much. So I guess the BF factor (if he's still there) .. would now be a bad time to shoot a more concrete form of contact? A call or text, maybe? It definitely wouldn't be one of those 'i still love you, come back to me' kind of things. Fall semester will be starting in about 4 weeks. I know I'm bound to bump into her. Should I wait till then? Thanks guys.. Link to comment
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