gigglyfreedom Posted July 25, 2008 Share Posted July 25, 2008 Hey, Ive been wondering this lately... you know how people say that 'love comes (romantic love) when you least expect it/arent looking for it'? to what degree do you agree with this? .. my intention is not to spoil the 'niceness' haha and 'poetic' aspect of the idea, but .. i was thinking that in any case, its probably true for ONE of the lovers, but not the other, right? after all, one does the 'pursuing' usually (so its not like a 'surprise' for one of them) if the 'love' occurs... after all, they did start off 'looking for it'/trying to make the other fall in love with him/her... right? what do you think of all this? is the statement really true? any personal experiences or anything at all, comments or ideas would be cool. people say that if you're actively 'looking for love', it will never happen - does that mean if i wanted to 'seduce' someone, lol, id have to constantly be thinking: no, dont look for love here, it wont happen, it wont happen... so that it does? I KNOW IT SOUNDS SILLY hahaha but it IS what people say... :S thanks!! Link to comment
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