atkin733 Posted July 25, 2008 Share Posted July 25, 2008 So, I wrote my ex girlfriend a handwritten letter.We have been broken up for a month. I contacted her two weeks after and asked her to come back. She said that we needed to "try" and move one. She was also calling mutual friends during the initial 2 weeks and asking about me. She added one of my friends to her myspace which I thought was weird. I just laid it out on the line in the letter. I told her how much she means to me. I told her the things I love and miss about her. I asked her to think about us getting back together slowly. I told her that things would have to change and we would have to work on stuff. This letter was mailed Monday. I am assuming she received on Tues or Wed. We only live 2 miles apart. Last night I received an email from her and the title is " Your Letter". I am so nervous about opening it. On one hand I think it is strange that she would send an email at 11:00. Then again who knows. I already went through hurt of the initial break up and now I may be doing it all over again. Does anyone want to guess what the chances of this email sent last night at 11:00 will be a good outcome? I will update this thread and give the results as soon as I open it. Link to comment
bfla Posted July 25, 2008 Share Posted July 25, 2008 Only one way to know I'm afraid. Last time I broke up with my ex, I did the handwritten letter and it pretty much convinced her. This time I did an email (at least 3 of my friends called it 'heartfelt'); but it most certainly did not. Link to comment
hockeyboy Posted July 25, 2008 Share Posted July 25, 2008 probably just easier to read it, rather they get your hopes up or down about it. your gong to read it eventually anyways... Link to comment
hockeyboy Posted July 25, 2008 Share Posted July 25, 2008 my guess is that she's going to say she appreciates the letter, it was really sweet....but things are what they are and you still need to move on. that is just going by my personal experience and what ive seen with others Link to comment
riley123 Posted July 25, 2008 Share Posted July 25, 2008 I agree with HockeyBoy. I think she probably would have called you if the letter convinced her to change her mind and come back. Sorry, man. Link to comment
isilv3r Posted July 25, 2008 Share Posted July 25, 2008 BAH what's the outcome?? Open the freakin email and tell us!!!!!! Link to comment
atkin733 Posted July 25, 2008 Author Share Posted July 25, 2008 I agree with HockeyBoy. I think she probably would have called you if the letter convinced her to change her mind and come back. Sorry, man. Or she could have just not responded at all. Link to comment
riley123 Posted July 25, 2008 Share Posted July 25, 2008 Or she could have just not responded at all. True. I guess there's only one way to find out... Link to comment
redtan Posted July 25, 2008 Share Posted July 25, 2008 Forward it to one of us and we can read it first. If it's bad news, we'll just tell you that and at least you don't have to open it and read the bad news line by line. Link to comment
thinkstoohard Posted July 25, 2008 Share Posted July 25, 2008 Open Open Open Open Open Open Open Open Open Open! Link to comment
SupaflyTNT Posted July 25, 2008 Share Posted July 25, 2008 OOOOOPPPPPPPEEEEEENNNNNNN! Suspense is killing meeeeee! Link to comment
Advice Posted July 25, 2008 Share Posted July 25, 2008 Just open the thing, were all dying to know !!!! This will eat away at you until you do it. If it's a 'thanks but no thanks' then have a damn good cry, get it out your system and move on. However, it could be something positive, but you won't know till you open it. I can see that your afraid that this maybe your last chance and you don't want the door to close. I'm afraid the door is already closed but maybe reopened. You need to know either way. Just expect the worse then you won't be disappointed. I feel a Facebook petition coming on !!! Good Luck Link to comment
floating_away Posted July 25, 2008 Share Posted July 25, 2008 Your curiosity will get the better of you. Not to mention you seem to be causing some people on this forum to have a heart attack. Link to comment
isilv3r Posted July 25, 2008 Share Posted July 25, 2008 I think he's just teasing us now.... Link to comment
DrPhil Posted July 25, 2008 Share Posted July 25, 2008 Or it's a long ass email =P Hang in there man. Link to comment
lostnva Posted July 25, 2008 Share Posted July 25, 2008 OMG...open the freaking email! Link to comment
lostnva Posted July 25, 2008 Share Posted July 25, 2008 Any one know where he lives? LMAO!!! I needed a laugh! Link to comment
isilv3r Posted July 25, 2008 Share Posted July 25, 2008 Apparently Mr atkins doesn't realize that we are all a bunch of deprived and sad people. Why would anyone want to hurt us like this? ...lol. Link to comment
thinkstoohard Posted July 25, 2008 Share Posted July 25, 2008 Dude, quit dilly dallying around and open it already! Link to comment
isilv3r Posted July 25, 2008 Share Posted July 25, 2008 Hes online...we can see you! lol! ...We should report him for unsupporting conduct. Link to comment
DN Posted July 25, 2008 Share Posted July 25, 2008 Moderator Note: OK folks. If he wants to share the e-mail he will. Let's not turn the thread into some sort of joke. Link to comment
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