reneex061 Posted July 25, 2008 Share Posted July 25, 2008 I've been with my boyfriend for over a year and a half. We're really serious about this and we both want this to work in the long run. The only problem is that we argue a lot and I think it's from lack of communication and also some of the stuff I do. Well one of the main things that I do that I HATE is that I always think things that I shouldn't and that will never happen. Like when he's texting me I think he's not texting back because he's on the phone with another girl; whenever he never is, and he's never talked to another girl on the phone since we've been together. And not even before we were together either. For some reason I always think he is getting off the phone to talk to another girl. I know that he doesn't do this but for some reason I still think it anyways. It doesn't make sense to me really. I wish I would stop thinking these thoughts. He's never lied to me about anything or has never cheated on me and never would. So I want to know if there is anything that I can do that will help me to not think about these things every time we get off the phone at night? I've been thinking things like this for a while and it's really bothering me. I want to feel okay with going to bed and I feel terrible that it seems like I don't trust him.. I wanna tell him how I feel but I'm afraid that he will get mad and think that I don't trust him. If anyone has any advice on how I can stop thinking things like this then please help me. I hate that I think this way and it really bothers me. I mainly think it's because of how all of my past boyfriends were and it's like I'm reacting to that now for some reason. He is not them and I wish I wouldn't feel this way. I feel like it hurts my relationship a lot because it makes him feel like I lack trust and it causes me to question everything and it hurts him. I mean we've been together for a long time now and I shouldn't think these things.. Link to comment
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