h0pelessr0mantic Posted July 25, 2008 Share Posted July 25, 2008 I caught my boyfriend cheating on me about a month ago (meeting people off the internet). Recently he has been surprisingly nice to me and not bugging me to come over everyday (which is very hard because i work full time and go to school and he lives over an hour away from me). So today i tried to call him and no one was home. About 2 hours later he picks up his phone and claims he was home all along and his mom left the phone off the hook. problem is...whenever his phone is off the hook (aka in use) the message states "the party you are calling is busy, please try ur call again". When the phone is not in use the message goes "the party u are calling is currently UNAVAILABLE...." So for the whole two hours it was "the party u are calling is currently unavailable". Now tonight it is his friends birthday and he was hanging out with his friend. He said all they were doing was hanging around his building with a bunch of friends and that he was going to call me at 11:30 pm. Well his friends phone is off (my boyfriend doesn't have a cell phone) and i still have not had any phone call. I don't understand why he can't call me since he lives in a condo complex and his friend lives in the same condo as he does...and he lives on the FIRST FLOOR. meaning all he would have to do is walk a few steps to his friends house and use his house phone or he could call from the conceirge. Also alot of the people he says he is hanging out with have CELL PHONES. I have no idea what is going on. should i be suspicious? Ok so here is the update: He finally calls me at 3:30 am, he is drunk and has no explination as to why he didn't call. He says he forgot. Then this morning he calls me again, demanding that i come over to his house. I say that he should apologize for not calling me and completely disappearing on me (and it makes no sense since he said he was at a net cafe the whole night...which means he could have called or e-mailed at least). And then he jokingly said "sorry ur such an idi0t". So i get upset and tell him that he really made me angry and asked him how he would like it if i did the same. He said that i wasn't allowed to because guys and girls have different rules when it comes to relationships and guys should be allowed more freedoms. Then he once again demanded that i go and see him. I said: "i'll think about it" then he said "how about i think about giving u a slap accross the face?" then i said: " go ahead and think about it". and hung up. Link to comment
This topic is now archived and is closed to further replies.