tina-rocks Posted July 24, 2008 Share Posted July 24, 2008 Hello! My name is Tina and I'm not sure where to start but here goes. My husband who I have been married to for 12 years announced 2 months ago he no longer loves me. He said "It just died". I know we have had our issues over the years with lack of children and more recently my health but I have never faltered with my love for him. Since this shock announcement I have been through every emotion possible and for the first 3 days I could not stop crying. When I first discovered he agreed to move out of our bedroom into the spare room until he had time to think about what he wanted. This lasted 2 days and he came back to my room saying he just feels more comfortable there However, if I even accidently brush up to him during the night he flinches and moves to the edge of the bed. I can't sleep. He will not move back out. I have made every concession he has asked of me to try to make him happy and yet he is getting worse. He will not leave our house as he said he has no where else to go and has announced last night he will not file for divorce now as he does not want solicitors taking our money. The valuation of our property came up a lot lower than he throught. He said I can file online This morning! he shouted at me and blamed me for our entire marriage breakdown and will not accept responsibility for any of this. He is so angry all the time. He is hardly home at all and goes away a lot. I'm sorry to be burdening anyone with this but not at all sure what is happening! Please can anyone help! Link to comment
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