soccerissweet Posted July 24, 2008 Share Posted July 24, 2008 So i recently (yesterday) posted about how my ex decides to text me the following... "i just wrote to say hey! just thinking about you!" after 1 week nc. I wake up the next morning to get a text from her again saying "goodnight ! I took the advice of everyone and just ignored her. Today I get 2 texts after I come home from the gym. The first reading "please dont ignore me! im stupid im sorry" then "ok i wont text you ne more! bye forever". At this point i did text back saying "was just at the gym" she responds "oh sorry, we are hanging out this weekend"....i respond by just saying yup and then she says "we dont have too" then i say "no we can" This is after about 1 week ago i asked her bluntly if she would give us a second chance and she said no so i said we could not be friends and went nc. what do you guys think she means by this. I want to ask her what she is sorry about. By the way i dont actually plan on seeing her this weekend. IM going to tell her im busy tommarrow and maybe some other time...I dunno this is messed up.... Link to comment
luvs2kayak Posted July 24, 2008 Share Posted July 24, 2008 I don't get it. Why are you hanging out this weekend if you are NC? That seems like a really bad idea. Link to comment
soccerissweet Posted July 24, 2008 Author Share Posted July 24, 2008 yeah, i kinda messed up, i should have said nothing i know but to get out of it im just going to say im busy....i guess i got excited...i know im not ready to see her let alone talk to her...i wish i didnt say i was at the gym...i should have ignored her threat to never talk to me again knowing it prob would have drove her nuts....damn....stupid mistake by me... Link to comment
luvs2kayak Posted July 24, 2008 Share Posted July 24, 2008 Instead of saying you're busy, why don't you tell her that you are not comfortable hanging out with her. That way, you're being honest with her and not giving her mixed signals. Link to comment
Clementine orange Posted July 24, 2008 Share Posted July 24, 2008 Just tell her that you are not up to seeing her this weekend (it's way too soon dude) hopefully without giving too much of a reason (Texting is great for that) Say, maybe some other time. I'd let her miss you a little more...or alot more. Plus I think you need to figure out what YOU want, right? Link to comment
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