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Where do you meet girls?


Godwin

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Right, just split up with my ex, after 7 years.

 

I am 30 years old and really don't have a clue where to start, so I need HELP people.

 

I have no issue speaking to girls, I went to speed dating the other night and got 3 matches out of 12 people, I must be doing something correct.

 

I am looking to date and see as many girls as possible though, after 7 years I need to live a little.

 

I have ruled out dating sites, they IMO are useless.

 

I am out with friends 3 times a week so I do socialise in bars etc

 

Any other suggestions?

 

You reckon I should just approach, chat and ask for a number?

 

People say "get a hobbie", like what? How do you meet a girl through a hobbie?

 

Please, please help!

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People say "get a hobbie", like what? How do you meet a girl through a hobbie?

 

 

Take up a chicks hobby, like some sort of arts and crafts.

 

just kidding....I'm a girl that likes baseball, so I am sure there are others out there, go to a game or something.

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I feel at our age ( i'm 29) the dating world is odd...many girls seem either too young/immature, or have already made a family with a previous relationship (i don't have an issue w/ that, but I have no children yet)

 

...and my hobby is worthless as far as meeting girls, i'm into motorcycles, trucks, and desert racing.

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i've been hit on by girls when i go surfing. some are surfers themselves, some are sunbathers, some are photographers etc.

 

pros: beach, good weather (mostly), lots of girls, surfing is fun, exercise. cheap, buy a used board, a wetsuit, you're good to go, get a tan.

 

cons: homeless, theft, lots of BF's, crowded at times, water can be cold enough to make your balls crawl into your stomach, localism (instead of girls hitting on you, its guy hitting you).

 

either way, its an interesting hobby.

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i've been hit on by girls when i go surfing. some are surfers themselves, some are sunbathers, some are photographers etc.

 

pros: beach, good weather (mostly), lots of girls, surfing is fun, exercise. cheap, buy a used board, a wetsuit, you're good to go, get a tan.

 

cons: homeless, theft, lots of BF's, crowded at times, water can be cold enough to make your balls crawl into your stomach, localism (instead of girls hitting on you, its guy hitting you).

 

either way, its an interesting hobby.

 

I live in Scotland, surfing is not an option

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I think you're doing most of the right things - socialising with friends, speed dating, not being afraid to approach women. New sport/arts/dance activities would probably give you an opportunitu to have more contact as well. But maybe you're just feeling under your own pressure to meet lots and lots of girls and for that reason you feel there is a problem when in reality there may not be.

 

Over the past year since my breakup I have met girls in bars & clubs, friend's parties, online (yes, I did join a dating agency) and also very randomly (ie. just approaching someone on the bus etc). For me online was/is a good experience - I have met some nice people and also enjoy the fact that you can have a date every now and then that is a little bit out the normal schedule. Just means that I don't feel that I Have to approach girls every time I am out with my friends..

 

I dont think there is one place where us guys can go to and meet all the women we want. I wish there was My general guideline ( which I do not abide ) would be to try and approach a few people every week. Do it in the usual places but also go for the spontaneous and random moments - on the steet, in a shop etc. Good luck!

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I feel at our age ( i'm 29) the dating world is odd...many girls seem either too young/immature, or have already made a family with a previous relationship (i don't have an issue w/ that, but I have no children yet)

 

I feel exactly the same way.

 

I've joined sports/outdoors groups because well I live a very active and healthy lifestyle and would very much like to meet someone the same.

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