circi Posted July 22, 2008 Share Posted July 22, 2008 My ex and I lived together for about a year, split up in December. He said he loved me but wasn't in love with me. The breakup was coming for a long time but when it finally happened it hit me really hard and I chased him for awhile. He started seeing someone else in January and moved in with her in March though I did not find this out until May. The thing is, he won't break the ties with me and still has some furniture and things here. I've gone NC for as much as 2 weeks at a time but always break down and either answer his calls or send him a benign text, which always results in him calling me. I'm pretty sure he does NOT have feelings for more anymore, but he will say things that make me wonder what is going through his head. Example, last week telling me he intends to be in my life and a pain in my ass until I'm 60. He has told me several times recently that he let outside influences effect our relationship and regrets it. He's also told me in the last few days that he thinks things would have been different. When he came over last week to give me some money for my Grandmother's piano that he's buying, I felt nothing. Yet my heart still flutters when I see his phone number on my phone. I'n not sure how I feel anymore, I think I miss the idea of him more than I miss him - but why won't he go away? He's LIVING with someone for God's sakes! Link to comment
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