Seems to be very clingy...ewww

[Blackhawk2009]

So i met this girl recently and we went out last night to dinner and a movie. The date went pretty well but i was not super attracted to her. Before we went out she kept on saying how "cute" i am and making some references to staying in my dorm room or me sleeping in her bed..etc etc. I find this rather odd, and i have come to notice that this girl likes me way too much, more so than i like her. She also talks to me on aim about 6 times a day, i have started to not go on aim just because i have run out of things to constantly talk about.

 

Also i comment my friend on facebook, who is a semi attractive female and i noticed that this girl added her as a friend. I was like "what are you doing". This girl seems to be very very clingy, or at least showing signs of it. I personally like girls who are independent, or at least somewhat independent.

 

Is it wrong for me to say these things? am i over reacting.

 

Im also not even sure if I want a girlfriend, i like being single, im 19 years old i have tons of time to date, i like going out to clubs and parties and meeting different people, i want to get the message to her that i just want to be friends but i dont know how she will take it.

 

Im trying to look at it as if i was in her position, which i have been before when i was younger.

 

Any opinions or advice would be much appreciated.

 

Thank you

[SchecterGuy]

Drop her. Its still early and it sounds like you do not need this.

[george237]

Easy way to end it is to tell her to her face that although you enjoyed the date you did not feel like you had enough in common. Also tell her that the constant need for comunication is starting to make you upset and request that she stops.

[ghost69]

tell her you are sorry, but she isn't your type. flat out. be blunt. get the point accross. block all her contact.

 

she is younger than you? try to stay at higher ages.

[Blackhawk2009]

no she is the same age as me.

 

thank you i will think about this

[kaoticbaby]

my bf was in the same situation before he met me. the next time the girl asked him if he wanted to see her again, he said "honestly, no, sorry." and signed offline.

 

ahhah but that might be just a little too blunt.

[25thfloor]

no she is the same age as me.

 

thank you i will think about this

 

the easiest way at 19? i would just say i met someone who i'm really interested in getting to know.