fadedocean Posted July 22, 2008 Share Posted July 22, 2008 It's been a while since I've posted/looked at this forum. As usual with my posts this will probably be a long one so bare with me. I kind of wish i would've thought of coming here before i started this, I just need to vent i think and also if anyone can give advice please do, but I'm not expecting it Just want to talk...which is weird for me I am friends with a girl, we kind of dated years ago, but it was nothing just a few weeks and we ended it with no problems. We started speaking a lot more again earlier this year, mainly on FB (we used to speak before via txt or on computer, but it was rare) and we just became really good friends again. We met up one evening and went out and had a good time, and we slept together. We both kind of knew it was going to happen, but we both stated it would be purely no strings and a bit of fun. Anyway, she wouldn't stop talking about it for days after to her friends, it kind of knocked me back a bit because it was like she was eager to tell everyone...but she was adamant still that she didn't want a relationship with me and that if i felt i was getting too close that we should end it, because she didn't want it to be weird between us. We've actually ended it now, mainly because when we went out last she got a guys number and i found i was a little jealous. So i told her and said i was going to back off. She said she was afraid of this, and said she went along with it even though she knew this would probably happen. I told her i would be fine, just to make it easier on me and her. I just don't understand what she actually wants from me, because while we were in the 'having fun' stage, she was really interested in all the girls txt messages i have in my phone and kept asking if i was more than friends with any of them, and i didn't understand why she was asking me. She stated she didn't think a relationship would work between us, but she said things that really contradicted her motives, yet now she is going on a date with this guy. I haven't said everything here, but thats cos i want to keep it short-ish. I can always say more if anyone replies Thanks Guys Faded Link to comment
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