Godwin Posted July 21, 2008 Share Posted July 21, 2008 Apologies, for the last 8 weeks I have completely denied that my ex was romantically involved with someone else. Well today, I find the truth out... We split because of ME that is clear, 10 weeks ago. Her new lover lives 200 miles away so no way an affair was on the cards. She was always with me. About 6 weeks ago my ex tells me that she plans to move away to stay with a old Uni friend, I believe this was also a legit move. Anyway we used to share an email account, so I was checking it the other day there and notices a rougue name, recommending her for a job. I Bebo the name and its a 32 year old dude, lawyer, my ex is also a lawyer and he is single. Hmmmmmm. Dude also lives in the new town. I check his Bebo today and read the following: I'm fine. Just spent the whole weekend with [exes name], which was magic. Getting on like a house on fire! and I've got a new flat that need christening and I have a new girlfriend B*tch is * * * * ing about 3/4 weeks outside of a 7 year realtionship. So I email her the following: So, I hear at the football tonight that your seeing someone already and your decision to move away (to ****** of all places) and possibly break up with me was down to him. I seemed to be the only person that didn't know. Thanks for being so considerate. I have to say, even by your standards recently, this was unexpected. I guess you think you know someone in life and in reality you dont know them at all. What was in like three weeks or something after a seven year relationship ended and your moving away to be with someone else? I am sure your parents will approve. Anyway, its really none of my business I just thought I would let you know that the cat is out of the bag. So you can stop the lies and pretending to be a caring, kind person. After this episode I don't think anyone really believes that anymore and can truly see your true colours. Question is, were you seeing this goon behind my back? Cheating on me? Or is it the classic rebound? Anyway, just as well I am a strong person, despite losing nearly 2 stone recently and almost losing my job I am through the worst of it and you cant hurt me anymore. Not going to write you a list of YOUR faults, there pretty evident. She sees herself as a caring and kind person. This will destroy her that everybody now knows and the best part is that she doesn't have a clue how. Anyway, I am so relieved, and happy for the first time in months. No more false hope etc Plus I have a date on Thursday. Link to comment
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