HeartGoesOn Posted September 11, 2008 Share Posted September 11, 2008 true, not very aggressive at all, Will i just ignore all contact? im a bit confused! If you have no intention of being friends, why are you responding to the crumbs he's throwing? Link to comment
JOYl Posted September 11, 2008 Author Share Posted September 11, 2008 Yeah, well im trying ,but when you get communciation every couple of days its kind of difficult. I guess i thought he might have needed space. Link to comment
JOYl Posted September 11, 2008 Author Share Posted September 11, 2008 yeap, that is one great question! Link to comment
JOYl Posted October 9, 2008 Author Share Posted October 9, 2008 so i stopped responding to the crumbs and got busy with my life , planning things etc, and basically kind of moved on. He sent me a msg when he got back from vacation, i replied about 2 weeks later and he sent me a reply. yesterday he rang ,talked for a while and told him that i need to go because i was going out, then he asked if i would like to go for a drink. Told him that im busy for the next few weeks so maybe after that. Boy , men are confusing... Why on Earth all this contact and wanting to meet someone who you 'broke up' with? Link to comment
JOYl Posted November 26, 2008 Author Share Posted November 26, 2008 another update.. so he rang exactly 2 weeks after that , i was in a great mood just back from vacation and had been on dates with other guys so had a fun chat on the phone, he wanted to meet for a drink, i said i was busy so we agreed on the following week.I was going out so we ended the conversation. So he rang and wanted to meet on the saturday night,told him i was busy so i said sunday would be ok. Sunday (3 months since we last saw each other)he came to collect me and came in the door and said ' i am back home. We gave each other a hug and went for a drink and had lots of fun , then i said i needed to go so he dropped me off and i blew him a kiss. He called me a few days after and left a msg and i called back and left a msg. Ahum..WTH? Thoughts? taking it easy casually again slowly or just 'friends'??! Link to comment
ghost69 Posted November 26, 2008 Share Posted November 26, 2008 sounds like he was bored for the day. Link to comment
JOYl Posted November 26, 2008 Author Share Posted November 26, 2008 yeah probably, i am done!! Its really time to move on away from ambivalence. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted November 26, 2008 Share Posted November 26, 2008 woowoo. congrats on figuring it out!! Link to comment
JOYl Posted November 26, 2008 Author Share Posted November 26, 2008 well i seriously cannot understand why a man of 38 behaves like that. I mean if they break up why not break up, whats with all the mixed signals? Link to comment
ghost69 Posted November 26, 2008 Share Posted November 26, 2008 well i seriously cannot understand why a man of 38 behaves like that. I mean if they break up why not break up, whats with all the mixed signals? who knows. screw him. Link to comment
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