Nicole4 Posted July 21, 2008 Share Posted July 21, 2008 So my last boyfriend could get hard just by looking at me. A guy I use to date would get hard just from making out. I go on a date tonight and pull out just about alll the stops and this * * * * * isn't getting completely hard. He ended up doing it himself while we were making out but it did take him a few minutes. And yes he likes me because he asked me out again (4th date) Are some guys just harder than others to get up? Like really hard.. Is it because he cleaned his pipes before the date? We were in a car.. I know * * * * ty right. We were basically clothed (I was wearing a dress) could the clothedness have been a factor? Ugh SOS because I really like this one! Link to comment
Axiom Posted July 21, 2008 Share Posted July 21, 2008 4th date. whats his middle name? lol jk. probly get the best answer from him tho. Link to comment
Nicole4 Posted July 21, 2008 Author Share Posted July 21, 2008 I was almost going to ask him if he had an erectile dysfunction hahaha ughh but yeah that would of been bad. I figure if it's something biological he'd tell me. In an attempt to avoid that conversation I'm running to these forums and if it happens again of course I'll ask > Link to comment
Nicole4 Posted July 21, 2008 Author Share Posted July 21, 2008 When guys are nervous isn't it hard to get it up as well? Link to comment
Axiom Posted July 21, 2008 Share Posted July 21, 2008 Ok so this was your first time with him. that right there could be it. or could have been the car. the dress.... no dresses are the epitamy of sexy. next time try somewhere he's comfortable. thats just my opinion tho Link to comment
Axiom Posted July 21, 2008 Share Posted July 21, 2008 When guys are nervous isn't it hard to get it up as well? kinda generic. dont ask him that. ask if when he is nervous if its harder to get hard. Link to comment
Rising Posted July 21, 2008 Share Posted July 21, 2008 Hmm, if he 'cleaned the pipes' before the date then it could be a possibility... but if I remember 16 then it most likely isn't the reason at all. I'd say just see if it becomes a reoccurring issue. If so then try changing the environment, clothes, or whatever else you see as a possible issue. Whatever the case, just make sure you guys are careful. Link to comment
luckyyy Posted July 21, 2008 Share Posted July 21, 2008 Wow give him a break he was probably nervous. I had the same problem and it was NOT ED, it took me 2 months to stop getting nervous whenever sex was brought up around my gf. Now I get it up every time I touch my gf! Link to comment
DLtoken Posted July 21, 2008 Share Posted July 21, 2008 You are comparing this poor fella to all people whom you were in some sort of a relationship with. I bet once you are with him a few more times, you will be complaining of him pre ejaculating. haha Link to comment
Nicole4 Posted July 21, 2008 Author Share Posted July 21, 2008 I'm not complaining. I'm 20 not 16 btw. I guess the 16 post thing confused you. I didn't say anything to him about it because I know there's lots of factors . Also no need to get on the defense. I'm not trying to rag on him about it, I was just frustrated with the situation. As the other girl who posted stated girls take a personal blow to this even though we shouldn't. Apparently he's also an insomniac and that's tied into the issue. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted July 21, 2008 Share Posted July 21, 2008 well, not much excitement with the clothes on. sure, feeling is there, but visual can do a lot. i know i'm not 100% rock hard all the time when doing it. but there are so many factors. tired, stressed, etc. but i bet it was because your clothes were on. Link to comment
Rising Posted July 22, 2008 Share Posted July 22, 2008 Oops! Sorry, yeah I misread the 16 posts to say you were 16 years old. My bad. Sleep definitely plays a part in a healthy life. Im pretty sure it won't be an issue in the future. Good luck to you both Link to comment
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