Tilter Posted July 21, 2008 Share Posted July 21, 2008 Not sure which area this should go in, feel free to correct me if this is the wrong area. Alright, I have this friend. She's been my best friend for several years now and I'm terribly worried about her. The big problem is that her mother is currently dating my ex-stepfather, Kevin. This man has made my life heck since I was little. My friend knows about all the problems I've had with him personally and the reason for the divorce, and I thought her mother did too. A first it was alright with us that they were dating. We'd just go to my house instead of her house, so neither of us would have to be around Kevin. If I do stay at my friend's house, her mother will warn me if Kevin says he'll be over. She knows I want nothing to do with him. Well, recently I've heard from my friend that her Mother and Kevin were talking about moving in together. Although it sounds like I don't want them to do that but my friend doesn't want it to happen either. He would be bringing the same problems into their home, as he did mine. Drugs, drinking excessively, verbal abuse, controlling behavior, possibly physical abuse. My friend's mother has three kids, two living with her. From what I know, it's been my friend's mom and her kids for years. I know my friend's mother wants a man in her life but... Her only daughter, has told her that she does not want him in their home. They have argued over it, my friend has cried over it. I know the best I have to offer my friend is a place to stay if he does move in with her family and a shoulder to cry on. I just... don't know! I know it wouldn't do any good if I told her mother how he is when living in a home, forget that my friend and I have still yet to tell her that he had cheated on my mother with a 16-18yr old around the time I was 13. Does anyone have some wise words or suggestions for me or my friend? Link to comment
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