lostcomplete Posted July 20, 2008 Share Posted July 20, 2008 we almost broke up, things changed, i became less selfish etc. over the last 6mnths of our relationship SHE was depressed, cold, and didnt care, eating bad, drinking all the time,rarely wanting to be intimate or even affectionate.I confronted her in april sayin Ineed someone who is affectionate,I do the same for my woman. she really didnt want to,was a chore, i HATED having to ask for it. she wanted to end it several times and then changed her mind because she wanted to make it work as did i. well it all ended a month ago, "i just cant do it anymore etc. i know i was needy, insecure, and no self esteem, and she wasnt intimate, got p**off really easily and was just too "wound about the little things" like how to load/unload a dishwasher. now shes out every weekend with her guy and girl friends, partying all the time, a COMPLETELY different person! it hurts to see shes happier without me!! NOW, i have asked several times that we give it another shot and she says NO, "whats changed in a month?" "i havent changed in a month, im still the same person" she says which leads me to believe she puts the breakup blame on me even though she admits she has issues too and that "it just wastn working out".shouldve done better and what i want out of a relationship. I have few friends but i do spend more time with them, and have thrown myself into work, working out, and spending way too much money on myself in order to feel better.... am afraid ill never be happy with a woman again as ive only had 2 long term relationships but alot of "girlfriends" when i was single...how do i cope?is it really BOTH our faults for not working out? CAN we ever get back together? she still loves me,is as open minded about us getting together again as she is about dating 1000's of people because "we never know what will happen" Link to comment
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